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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 693938" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Albatross. I am sorry I missed your thread until now. My son used to play the drama queen card: Stabbed and hospitalized for emergency surgery was one that stands out in my memory. Until I posted a thread and 2 dozen mothers across the globe responded they had gotten the same story, so I could stop hyperventilating.</p><p>The cruelty of this, would almost make me want to turn away and let him stew in this cruel cauldron that he has prepared to hurt you.</p><p>And this...is vicious. Obviously this attack and robbery unfortunately has not given him humility or compassion or empathy or lessened his blood lust.</p><p></p><p>Albatross, he has to be stopped from hurting the mother who loves him with all her heart and soul. You must make yourself safe from him. He should never be allowed to hurt you like this. There needs to be a consequence that is stunning in its effect, where he comes up against stone and iron and black empty space if he ever conceives of hurting you like this again. </p><p></p><p>There is no room here to think of what he needs or lacks. This is only about you now--protecting yourself. Making the strongest and most impermeable boundary. Your only failing was to love him with all your heart. The love continues. But he cannot be allowed to hurt you. That is what I think.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 693938, member: 18958"] Albatross. I am sorry I missed your thread until now. My son used to play the drama queen card: Stabbed and hospitalized for emergency surgery was one that stands out in my memory. Until I posted a thread and 2 dozen mothers across the globe responded they had gotten the same story, so I could stop hyperventilating. The cruelty of this, would almost make me want to turn away and let him stew in this cruel cauldron that he has prepared to hurt you. And this...is vicious. Obviously this attack and robbery unfortunately has not given him humility or compassion or empathy or lessened his blood lust. Albatross, he has to be stopped from hurting the mother who loves him with all her heart and soul. You must make yourself safe from him. He should never be allowed to hurt you like this. There needs to be a consequence that is stunning in its effect, where he comes up against stone and iron and black empty space if he ever conceives of hurting you like this again. There is no room here to think of what he needs or lacks. This is only about you now--protecting yourself. Making the strongest and most impermeable boundary. Your only failing was to love him with all your heart. The love continues. But he cannot be allowed to hurt you. That is what I think. [/QUOTE]
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