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After 8 years, my son is getting his license reinstated!
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<blockquote data-quote="Ephchap" data-source="post: 606487" data-attributes="member: 27"><p>OMG, I was shaking when I went to the mailbox and the letter was in there. My son went to court on June 12, so almost 3 months later, the letter finally arrived (I think the postman thought I had a crush on him as I'd almost wait for him to pull up to the mailbox daily!).</p><p></p><p>His license is being reinstated!!!! OMG, I can't tell you how happy we all are. A second chance, finally. It's a restricted license - to/from work, doctor appointments, AA meetings, plus he has to get the blow thingie in the car. We knew it would only be reinstated with those restrictions for at least the first year, but OMG! He can finally move forward with his life, and so can husband and I!!!</p><p></p><p>I had asked back in June for good thoughts from the Board, as I know the power of this Board. For all who had sent good thoughts, rattled beads, etc., thank you from the bottom of my heart. </p><p></p><p>For those that don't know our story, I've cut and pasted my previous post below. Wooooohooooooo. I am beyond happy! <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/choir.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":choir:" title="choir :choir:" data-shortname=":choir:" /></p><p></p><p>Deb</p><p></p><p>___________________________________________</p><p></p><p></p><p>Old post from 3 months ago ...</p><p>Because my difficult child is now 29, most here probably don't even know or remember me. My story with difficult child started so long ago, and after two residential stays, overcoming pot and then crack, a felony conviction while drugging at age 17, overcoming alcohol addiction, and two alcohol related driving stops (one at age 20 although under the legal alcohol limit, zero tolerance for being under age, and the second stop at age 22, and just over the legal limit), he has not had a license since age 22.</p><p></p><p>He's the father of my 5 year old grandson, has worked at the same job for 6 years now, and has been completely sober (a member of AA and even runs the Saturday night meetings at the local Alano (AA) Club) for 3-1/2 years.</p><p></p><p>All that background to say that he has a hearing tomorrow to appeal his license revocation. This will be his third time going back to court to ask for his license to be reinstated (with the blowing machine in the car and limited driving times to/from work and meetings). Hopefully the third time is the charm. He can now show that he's been an upstanding citizen (no trouble with police since age 22, 7 years ago), is working, and most importantly - is sober. He's done everything he can to show he's trying to move forward. The last time he couldn't prove a long enough period of sobriety; this time his 3-1/2 years is documented by his AA fellow members and signed slips. I really and truly feel it is time to let him move forward with his life (so husband and I can too, since we are driving him to/from work most of the time as there is no bus or transit system here). Last time, the judge also brought up his past substance abuse problems and said that being diagnosis'd bipolar means that he's more likely to turn to substances. Arghhh. Not sure if NAMI would agree that's legal, as making a blanket statement like that seems illegal and immoral to me, but I'm just a warrior mom who has seen my son turn things around and is trying to live a good, clean life.</p><p></p><p>I know the power of this board, as I've been helped through some very dark times in the past with my son. I know I haven't been around much lately and so many of you don't know me, but would really and truly appreciate any good thoughts for my son tomorrow.</p><p></p><p>Read more: <a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/forum/f11/old-timer-could-really-use-power-board-54114/#ixzz2e9z4W7xe" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/forum/f11/old-timer-could-really-use-power-board-54114/#ixzz2e9z4W7xe</a></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ephchap, post: 606487, member: 27"] OMG, I was shaking when I went to the mailbox and the letter was in there. My son went to court on June 12, so almost 3 months later, the letter finally arrived (I think the postman thought I had a crush on him as I'd almost wait for him to pull up to the mailbox daily!). His license is being reinstated!!!! OMG, I can't tell you how happy we all are. A second chance, finally. It's a restricted license - to/from work, doctor appointments, AA meetings, plus he has to get the blow thingie in the car. We knew it would only be reinstated with those restrictions for at least the first year, but OMG! He can finally move forward with his life, and so can husband and I!!! I had asked back in June for good thoughts from the Board, as I know the power of this Board. For all who had sent good thoughts, rattled beads, etc., thank you from the bottom of my heart. For those that don't know our story, I've cut and pasted my previous post below. Wooooohooooooo. I am beyond happy! :choir: Deb ___________________________________________ Old post from 3 months ago ... Because my difficult child is now 29, most here probably don't even know or remember me. My story with difficult child started so long ago, and after two residential stays, overcoming pot and then crack, a felony conviction while drugging at age 17, overcoming alcohol addiction, and two alcohol related driving stops (one at age 20 although under the legal alcohol limit, zero tolerance for being under age, and the second stop at age 22, and just over the legal limit), he has not had a license since age 22. He's the father of my 5 year old grandson, has worked at the same job for 6 years now, and has been completely sober (a member of AA and even runs the Saturday night meetings at the local Alano (AA) Club) for 3-1/2 years. All that background to say that he has a hearing tomorrow to appeal his license revocation. This will be his third time going back to court to ask for his license to be reinstated (with the blowing machine in the car and limited driving times to/from work and meetings). Hopefully the third time is the charm. He can now show that he's been an upstanding citizen (no trouble with police since age 22, 7 years ago), is working, and most importantly - is sober. He's done everything he can to show he's trying to move forward. The last time he couldn't prove a long enough period of sobriety; this time his 3-1/2 years is documented by his AA fellow members and signed slips. I really and truly feel it is time to let him move forward with his life (so husband and I can too, since we are driving him to/from work most of the time as there is no bus or transit system here). Last time, the judge also brought up his past substance abuse problems and said that being diagnosis'd bipolar means that he's more likely to turn to substances. Arghhh. Not sure if NAMI would agree that's legal, as making a blanket statement like that seems illegal and immoral to me, but I'm just a warrior mom who has seen my son turn things around and is trying to live a good, clean life. I know the power of this board, as I've been helped through some very dark times in the past with my son. I know I haven't been around much lately and so many of you don't know me, but would really and truly appreciate any good thoughts for my son tomorrow. Read more: [url]http://www.conductdisorders.com/forum/f11/old-timer-could-really-use-power-board-54114/#ixzz2e9z4W7xe[/url] [/QUOTE]
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