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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 678814" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>The need to FEEL in control. As in, they cannot handle feeling "out of control", and for them, the only other option is to feel "in control". Usually, these people have gone through their own FOO issues, and been damaged. Being "out of control" leaves them open to damage. So, perhaps they see the "controlled, orchestrated life" as a way of damage control?</p><p> </p><p>In the process, they damage others. They don't see that. Their own survival depends on being "in control", and because that isn't 100% possible, they never "arrive" at that calm, collected, peaceful existence that they (like most of us) seek.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 678814, member: 11791"] The need to FEEL in control. As in, they cannot handle feeling "out of control", and for them, the only other option is to feel "in control". Usually, these people have gone through their own FOO issues, and been damaged. Being "out of control" leaves them open to damage. So, perhaps they see the "controlled, orchestrated life" as a way of damage control? In the process, they damage others. They don't see that. Their own survival depends on being "in control", and because that isn't 100% possible, they never "arrive" at that calm, collected, peaceful existence that they (like most of us) seek. [/QUOTE]
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