kt has been telling everyone & their brother that she sees wm on a daily basis; that we are getting his room ready for him moving back home & that they "know how to be brother & sister". Yesterday, in the same breath, to her in home therapist, she commented that wm is scary & he has hurt her. I'm getting calls with concerns over wm coming home (like it's the school's business or anything); however this talk has trickled over to mental health case manager (who'd already been informed by husband) & CADI manager (same). wm, on the other hand, doesn't see a reason to be bothered by kt. kt is living a fantasy family life. The life we had planned together, but didn't work out. She's refusing to listen to reason so we just listen & point out a "parents" concern. I preface things by saying "kt, if you were the mom here, what would you honestly do to keep your other children safe?" The amazing thing is that kt expresses her concerns over her family's safety & wouldn't do anything different. In the meantime, she's been acting out & yelling at tdocs & other in home workers that they are the reason that she can't see wm right now. Attachment tdocs, SWs, mental health CM, husband & myself are planning a 10 minute face to face visit in the first 2 weeks of December. I believe that kt just needs to see wm a couple of times a month & this anxiety/fantasy will lessen. "Mom, none of this is right". Boy are you right, ktbug.