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<blockquote data-quote="A dad" data-source="post: 679987" data-attributes="member: 18668"><p>This is so similar to my youngest as he does not try to hurt people he hurts them by being as you said unwilling to think about others also. Of course his solution to such things is to give them space. For example a relative of us he was very close to had cancer so his solution to help her with the issue was to cut all contact with her and before they communicated and where very close but when things get tough he is out.</p><p>So when things are good he is there for you when things are bad well he is out. Now do not get me wrong when things get tough his solution is always to run away or to avoid the difficult things so he never tried to call the police or to actively try hurt us he tried to avoid us as much as he could.</p><p>His solution is of course one of the solutions with the least damage among the bad ones but its not the right one and he will never change I am certain of that he will never learn to deal with bad things in his life he will always try to run away from them.</p><p>I know this does not seem so bad for a difficult child but I think it is.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="A dad, post: 679987, member: 18668"] This is so similar to my youngest as he does not try to hurt people he hurts them by being as you said unwilling to think about others also. Of course his solution to such things is to give them space. For example a relative of us he was very close to had cancer so his solution to help her with the issue was to cut all contact with her and before they communicated and where very close but when things get tough he is out. So when things are good he is there for you when things are bad well he is out. Now do not get me wrong when things get tough his solution is always to run away or to avoid the difficult things so he never tried to call the police or to actively try hurt us he tried to avoid us as much as he could. His solution is of course one of the solutions with the least damage among the bad ones but its not the right one and he will never change I am certain of that he will never learn to deal with bad things in his life he will always try to run away from them. I know this does not seem so bad for a difficult child but I think it is. [/QUOTE]
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