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<blockquote data-quote="Gone" data-source="post: 641277"><p>....NEVER??? <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/dissapointed2.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":dissapointed2:" title="dissapointed2 :dissapointed2:" data-shortname=":dissapointed2:" /></p><p></p><p>I honestly think my difficult child will NEVER realise what she has put me through and still is putting me through and I have to live with that fact</p><p></p><p>I deal with my OWN anger about her as that is MY ''stuff'' then have to leave her to deal with her ''stuff'' ( hopefully , for her sake )</p><p></p><p>Sad thing is HOW does my GS deal with ''his stuff''???</p><p></p><p>He is 7 years old and Autistic with only a little speech , he does get upset and angry sometimes which is not surprising so I am going to encourage him to hit some pillows as he does lash out when angry and frustrated and seems to look for an effective way of getting it all out , bless him! x</p><p></p><p>The thing I HATE and find difficult is the ''unknown'' I don't KNOW if or when my difficult child is going to recover , I don't know WHEN my GS will be out of care or how LONG he will be in care , the next LAC review is in March 2015 so SS are obviously expecting he will still be in care then which will make it 9 months away from us as a family</p><p></p><p>My other daughter has not seen her nephew who she is very fond of for 6 months now and he has not seen his little 2 yr old cousin for 6 months either and he says her name from time to time along with one of his Uncles name...</p><p></p><p>It affects the wider family indeed and EVERYONE in the family are concerned about my difficult child and GS's future , it is worrying , stressful and it hurts , the whole family is hurting and we ''supposed'' to be looking forward to a 'very Merry Christmas' which is very difficult under these circumstances!!!!</p><p></p><p>I have already had 3 losses this year so it is a sad time for all of us in the family and this situation just adds to it and it is not the bereavements which destroyed this family it is the ALCOHOLISM!!! <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/angry-very2.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":angry-very2:" title="angry-very2 :angry-very2:" data-shortname=":angry-very2:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/angry-very2.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":angry-very2:" title="angry-very2 :angry-very2:" data-shortname=":angry-very2:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Gone, post: 641277"] ....NEVER??? :dissapointed2: I honestly think my difficult child will NEVER realise what she has put me through and still is putting me through and I have to live with that fact I deal with my OWN anger about her as that is MY ''stuff'' then have to leave her to deal with her ''stuff'' ( hopefully , for her sake ) Sad thing is HOW does my GS deal with ''his stuff''??? He is 7 years old and Autistic with only a little speech , he does get upset and angry sometimes which is not surprising so I am going to encourage him to hit some pillows as he does lash out when angry and frustrated and seems to look for an effective way of getting it all out , bless him! x The thing I HATE and find difficult is the ''unknown'' I don't KNOW if or when my difficult child is going to recover , I don't know WHEN my GS will be out of care or how LONG he will be in care , the next LAC review is in March 2015 so SS are obviously expecting he will still be in care then which will make it 9 months away from us as a family My other daughter has not seen her nephew who she is very fond of for 6 months now and he has not seen his little 2 yr old cousin for 6 months either and he says her name from time to time along with one of his Uncles name... It affects the wider family indeed and EVERYONE in the family are concerned about my difficult child and GS's future , it is worrying , stressful and it hurts , the whole family is hurting and we ''supposed'' to be looking forward to a 'very Merry Christmas' which is very difficult under these circumstances!!!! I have already had 3 losses this year so it is a sad time for all of us in the family and this situation just adds to it and it is not the bereavements which destroyed this family it is the ALCOHOLISM!!! :angry-very2::angry-very2: [/QUOTE]
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