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ALL THIS - IT's at the least half my faul..I cannot see it any other way-I have tried
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<blockquote data-quote="BellJar" data-source="post: 472954" data-attributes="member: 13068"><p>Hi Dollphyn,</p><p></p><p>I am brand new here and at the beginning of my journey so I don't have a lot of advice to give but I had to stop by and offer you a big cyber hug. Your son spiralling out of control is NOT your fault. If every single spoiled kid on this planet started fires and stole we'd all be standing in charred smoking ruins right now, wondering where our wallets went. Could you have done some things better? Sure, probably. Welcome to the club! If you could see us all, and you asked us which one of us never made mistakes as a parent, no one's hand would be up. There is something else going on, something you did not do and something that you cannot fix. And everybody else is exactly right. He is an adult now and he has to take responsibility, and the avoidance of that is clearly something he did NOT learn from you. </p><p></p><p>*HUGS*</p><p></p><p>Hang in there, and be kind to yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BellJar, post: 472954, member: 13068"] Hi Dollphyn, I am brand new here and at the beginning of my journey so I don't have a lot of advice to give but I had to stop by and offer you a big cyber hug. Your son spiralling out of control is NOT your fault. If every single spoiled kid on this planet started fires and stole we'd all be standing in charred smoking ruins right now, wondering where our wallets went. Could you have done some things better? Sure, probably. Welcome to the club! If you could see us all, and you asked us which one of us never made mistakes as a parent, no one's hand would be up. There is something else going on, something you did not do and something that you cannot fix. And everybody else is exactly right. He is an adult now and he has to take responsibility, and the avoidance of that is clearly something he did NOT learn from you. *HUGS* Hang in there, and be kind to yourself. [/QUOTE]
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