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ALL THIS - IT's at the least half my faul..I cannot see it any other way-I have tried
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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 473398"><p>Here here to E. Hayes post! Bravo! Like she and others have said, no matter what happened to us and/or your son when we were kids, when we become adults at 18 (for the most part) and 21 FOR SURE, all bets are OFF. Time to move on plain and simple. When I said to tell him at some point (briefly) that you wish you did things differently, I want to make sure you realize that this is for your benefit and only do this if you feel it would help you and if you can find the right time to do it and you can do it appropriately and simply. DON'T let him wallow in or use such a thing. You only did what you thought was best...having every best intention. And now you are doing what you KNOW is best. He is an adult and his lifestyle is not good for him, for you or for society. He does have a CHOICE. I love this quote "It's choice not chance that determines our destiny." He is making choices to blame everyone in the world, including a parent who cares for him. Good for you for moving forward with what you need to do. You set a good example by doing this and you will feel better and better/strong and stronger each day.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 473398"] Here here to E. Hayes post! Bravo! Like she and others have said, no matter what happened to us and/or your son when we were kids, when we become adults at 18 (for the most part) and 21 FOR SURE, all bets are OFF. Time to move on plain and simple. When I said to tell him at some point (briefly) that you wish you did things differently, I want to make sure you realize that this is for your benefit and only do this if you feel it would help you and if you can find the right time to do it and you can do it appropriately and simply. DON'T let him wallow in or use such a thing. You only did what you thought was best...having every best intention. And now you are doing what you KNOW is best. He is an adult and his lifestyle is not good for him, for you or for society. He does have a CHOICE. I love this quote "It's choice not chance that determines our destiny." He is making choices to blame everyone in the world, including a parent who cares for him. Good for you for moving forward with what you need to do. You set a good example by doing this and you will feel better and better/strong and stronger each day. [/QUOTE]
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