I live in a prison. Three months ago, my daughter stole her grandmothers debit card and spent $800 (mind you gma is on social security) to show up on my door step. I let her go live with her bio dad on the other side of the country a year ago because I couldn't handle her behavior. She showed up a much worse monster. She starves all day, counting calories, and aiming to be super thin. Then, she binges all night, emptying out the fridge of all food for my younger children, purging it in the toilet shortly after. I'm on a limited income, so food waste like this is absolutely not okay. But this goes way beyond just an eating disorder. I've locked the fridge with a chain and padlock and put all food in my closet. I've deadbolted my door, but I can't do that at night because I need my younger kids to have access to me. In the last 60 days she has (I keep a journal): Eaten very old nasty food from garbage cans Eaten most of our family dinners and then walks straight into the bathroom and throws it up, leaving little to none for the rest of the family to eat. Steals food from younger kids if I don't watch that they get a chance to eat it Came home drunk Had sex while intoxicated on a sleep over Borrowed money from friends for eating disorder items (laxatives, etc) with no intent on paying them back Stole a student flash drive from school Stole the guidance counselors notebooks from school Keeps showing up with stolen merchandise and won't tell me where she's getting said "money" (I say it's stolen because she has no proof of purchasing it - no receipts.. nothing) Poured water down the stairs to be spiteful Cusses at us in German Keeps going in my little kids room in the middle of the night Has stolen items from my room in the middle of the night Had to have police threaten to drag her to school one morning because she refused to go Countless irate and wailing temper tantrums Snuck out of house at night Cutting on her legs and stomach Poured nutritional drinks all over the driveway and sidewalk Refuses to go to class at school on time so they assigned her an escort Hysteria at school over having to serve detention Had fraudulent text messages sent to me over the internet with someone (or her) impersonating to be an adult, asking for Haley to spend the night. Purged medication, and left all over floor. Created a false bottom in her backpack to hide coffee grounds (instant) Is failing 2 out of the 3 classes she has When i take her to the psychiatrist, therapist, hospital.. she's sweet, charming, smiles, makes eye contact, acknowledges her mistakes, and minimizes the problem. And oh my do they believe her. Meanwhile, I'm considering going to jail to have her removed from my home to protect the rest of my family. I really don't know what to do. I just want her to leave. I can't live like this for two more years.