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<blockquote data-quote="Carolita2" data-source="post: 670403" data-attributes="member: 19632"><p>We have made some progress in not helping our adult older son and his girlfriend..Gone from full support to breaking the lease on their apartment and sending no money sonce bring on this website. We did offer to fix his car for his bd 2 weeks ago but they have taken no action. The utilities in apt are shut down, no jobs, food (used all foodstamps for month) When we do communicate we hear how they cannot believe how cruel we are, etc.. very hard to understand this doing nothing about anything lifestyle. They must vacate the premises by Nov 15th. The car too. Ok it's registered in my name .Wonder how to change that? Before tow and inpound..</p><p>Think we should go no contact again..It seems like contact is perpetuating the dialogue that feeds the codependence...should we sign off and say something.. really want to keep moving forward..it's awful to say but the burden of what they are going through is too much to hear without getting torn up risking relapsing into helping again..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Carolita2, post: 670403, member: 19632"] We have made some progress in not helping our adult older son and his girlfriend..Gone from full support to breaking the lease on their apartment and sending no money sonce bring on this website. We did offer to fix his car for his bd 2 weeks ago but they have taken no action. The utilities in apt are shut down, no jobs, food (used all foodstamps for month) When we do communicate we hear how they cannot believe how cruel we are, etc.. very hard to understand this doing nothing about anything lifestyle. They must vacate the premises by Nov 15th. The car too. Ok it's registered in my name .Wonder how to change that? Before tow and inpound.. Think we should go no contact again..It seems like contact is perpetuating the dialogue that feeds the codependence...should we sign off and say something.. really want to keep moving forward..it's awful to say but the burden of what they are going through is too much to hear without getting torn up risking relapsing into helping again.. [/QUOTE]
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