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<blockquote data-quote="Carolita2" data-source="post: 671861" data-attributes="member: 19632"><p>Thanks Kathy,</p><p>When i read your post it helped me to realize it is a process and will take time and work...</p><p>Thank you soooo much for pointing out the car..Yea they even got the tow truck..how'd they do that..?</p><p>I had a volley with him this morning that was pathological...Unbelievable..girlfriend is sick and because we won't send money we are forcing him to steal from the drugstore....We said very sorry but we cannot help today but tomorrow we could use your help removing the plates from the car and getting the registration and mailing both to us..I think this may be the only thing I have asked him in years..he completely ignored this request even though we said we'll give you a few dollars for all the walking involved and post office fees..no response just got right back on we need money now or else! We are cutting contact further notice..Actually see the wisdom of that because all problems stem from the contact. The girlfriend is much more rational and reality based..If we text with anyone in the future it will be her..Actually we were and it was going ok. She was talking a plan, had some goals..still think it's best to minimize contact for now. We agree, their rent was $675 and not a bad little place..They payed rent 1x in a year when she got her tax return from working last year. But it's too late they have to vacate on the 15th of this month, a mere 8 days..</p><p>Hubs and I are thinking of going away for 48 hours just to change things up. Not easy we have another son who is rather disabled living with but in his own apartment but we have good staff and need to do more of this anyway</p><p>We are in therapy with a wonderful guy who tried to work with our son long distance but he alienated him and then blamed the therapist for the changes we started to make then 4 or 5 months ago. Then I found this site and feel that I'm +really making progress now..It is really wonderful to hear and easier to implement solutions that come from parents who have the same issues and the biological bond that is so hard to alter. </p><p>Just reading this post gives me the reinforcement I need to let go and go and enjoy the rest of my day...Thanks...PS read Charles Rubin almost daily...so good..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Carolita2, post: 671861, member: 19632"] Thanks Kathy, When i read your post it helped me to realize it is a process and will take time and work... Thank you soooo much for pointing out the car..Yea they even got the tow truck..how'd they do that..? I had a volley with him this morning that was pathological...Unbelievable..girlfriend is sick and because we won't send money we are forcing him to steal from the drugstore....We said very sorry but we cannot help today but tomorrow we could use your help removing the plates from the car and getting the registration and mailing both to us..I think this may be the only thing I have asked him in years..he completely ignored this request even though we said we'll give you a few dollars for all the walking involved and post office fees..no response just got right back on we need money now or else! We are cutting contact further notice..Actually see the wisdom of that because all problems stem from the contact. The girlfriend is much more rational and reality based..If we text with anyone in the future it will be her..Actually we were and it was going ok. She was talking a plan, had some goals..still think it's best to minimize contact for now. We agree, their rent was $675 and not a bad little place..They payed rent 1x in a year when she got her tax return from working last year. But it's too late they have to vacate on the 15th of this month, a mere 8 days.. Hubs and I are thinking of going away for 48 hours just to change things up. Not easy we have another son who is rather disabled living with but in his own apartment but we have good staff and need to do more of this anyway We are in therapy with a wonderful guy who tried to work with our son long distance but he alienated him and then blamed the therapist for the changes we started to make then 4 or 5 months ago. Then I found this site and feel that I'm +really making progress now..It is really wonderful to hear and easier to implement solutions that come from parents who have the same issues and the biological bond that is so hard to alter. Just reading this post gives me the reinforcement I need to let go and go and enjoy the rest of my day...Thanks...PS read Charles Rubin almost daily...so good.. [/QUOTE]
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