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Am I Asking Too Much...?
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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 236790" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>MWM--</p><p> </p><p>This is an excellent point...and something that I have to learn. All these years I have been trying to follow the advice of numerous professionals about being a stricter disciplinarian...or offering more rewards...etc. and obviously, this is not the correct approach (it never has been--which I'm sure is where the ODD diagnosis came from in the first place). And I DO fall into the trap of "<em>Well, she's 13 so she should be able to</em>......".</p><p> </p><p>Hmmm...</p><p> </p><p>Thanks for this perspective...</p><p> </p><p>So it sounds like I may be creating my own stress here? Maybe I can think of a better approach--</p><p> </p><p>I'm open to suggestion, if anyone has any more...</p><p> </p><p>--DaisyF</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 236790, member: 6546"] MWM-- This is an excellent point...and something that I have to learn. All these years I have been trying to follow the advice of numerous professionals about being a stricter disciplinarian...or offering more rewards...etc. and obviously, this is not the correct approach (it never has been--which I'm sure is where the ODD diagnosis came from in the first place). And I DO fall into the trap of "[I]Well, she's 13 so she should be able to[/I]......". Hmmm... Thanks for this perspective... So it sounds like I may be creating my own stress here? Maybe I can think of a better approach-- I'm open to suggestion, if anyone has any more... --DaisyF [/QUOTE]
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