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<blockquote data-quote="Jody" data-source="post: 553146" data-attributes="member: 8787"><p>Amber,</p><p></p><p>Me too, I couldn't co-habitate or get married if I had any desire. to I like to think I could not put up with them, but I think it might be pretty hard to put up with me too. I like my routine, or I like having a lack of one if thats what's going on for the week. I can only handle so much, and I know what I need. With my bi-polar and being a single mom and working a full-time job, I have to limit what I can take on. If I get too stressed I can't think properly, and can really go off in a tail spin. I try to prevent that as much as possible and one way for me to do that is to prevent any unecessary isuess if I can. Having someone over when I don't want to is one of those times. If you don't want to throw on the girlfriend hat till Saturday night then so be it. I can manage my kids, and their activities, my home, and my dogs during the week, I also don't get bent out of shape about the house till Saturday, and particularly would not want anyone stopping by on a Friday night, heck I don't want anyone to stop by any night of the week. I found a yard gnome at a local store here that said Leave. lol. Once in a while I don't mind playing hostess, but it's definately a planned type of thing. I like my alone time. No guilt!!! Hang in there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jody, post: 553146, member: 8787"] Amber, Me too, I couldn't co-habitate or get married if I had any desire. to I like to think I could not put up with them, but I think it might be pretty hard to put up with me too. I like my routine, or I like having a lack of one if thats what's going on for the week. I can only handle so much, and I know what I need. With my bi-polar and being a single mom and working a full-time job, I have to limit what I can take on. If I get too stressed I can't think properly, and can really go off in a tail spin. I try to prevent that as much as possible and one way for me to do that is to prevent any unecessary isuess if I can. Having someone over when I don't want to is one of those times. If you don't want to throw on the girlfriend hat till Saturday night then so be it. I can manage my kids, and their activities, my home, and my dogs during the week, I also don't get bent out of shape about the house till Saturday, and particularly would not want anyone stopping by on a Friday night, heck I don't want anyone to stop by any night of the week. I found a yard gnome at a local store here that said Leave. lol. Once in a while I don't mind playing hostess, but it's definately a planned type of thing. I like my alone time. No guilt!!! Hang in there. [/QUOTE]
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