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<blockquote data-quote="Woriedmom" data-source="post: 628761" data-attributes="member: 18061"><p>Tish and Annie, I want to cry when I read what you've been through and still going through. My son is only 20, smoking pot and God knows what else. I just read the physical and emotional signs of different drugs. Most assuredly a couple years ago there was all the signs of cocaine,possibly meth and speed. Right now I cannot tell but he never stole from us but I do suspect that before we kicked him out he'd been running drugs. Using the car he has to drive people here and there with God knows what to sell. I feel as a parent <strong>I've done my best to warn him of the consequences for his actions with the law.</strong> I'm so glad that yesterday when my son popped in to take his LAST shower in our house or ...(so his step dad ) says...but that my husband finally spoke to my son about the seriousness of his D.U.I. charge. The 2 haven't said a word to eachother in over a month. I hate being in between the 2 I'm going out of my mind. I know the feeling of Eggshells too, when I noticed my sons mean side I have to stay clear of him. Yesterday ..."Father's day" , I say to my son "it's father's day you know" he says to me "What's that mean to me? I've never had one". Why do I feel bad? maybe it's because I remember him as the little sweet boy he use to be. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/cry.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":cry:" title="cry :cry:" data-shortname=":cry:" /> I sent him on his way with some body wash and a gallon of ice-tea.It was the least I could do. Right?</p><p></p><p>Childofmine, I like your list of what you allow and don't allow. My son too slept in his car over the weekend. Said he got a horrible cramp from it.( The car is almost 15 years old.) he did say he will be looking for another job so with that I will have to talk my husband into allowing my son to shower at our house. I mean, he can't go to interviews smelling bad. But...I don't know how he's going to keep his job if he goes to jail.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Woriedmom, post: 628761, member: 18061"] Tish and Annie, I want to cry when I read what you've been through and still going through. My son is only 20, smoking pot and God knows what else. I just read the physical and emotional signs of different drugs. Most assuredly a couple years ago there was all the signs of cocaine,possibly meth and speed. Right now I cannot tell but he never stole from us but I do suspect that before we kicked him out he'd been running drugs. Using the car he has to drive people here and there with God knows what to sell. I feel as a parent [B]I've done my best to warn him of the consequences for his actions with the law.[/B] I'm so glad that yesterday when my son popped in to take his LAST shower in our house or ...(so his step dad ) says...but that my husband finally spoke to my son about the seriousness of his D.U.I. charge. The 2 haven't said a word to eachother in over a month. I hate being in between the 2 I'm going out of my mind. I know the feeling of Eggshells too, when I noticed my sons mean side I have to stay clear of him. Yesterday ..."Father's day" , I say to my son "it's father's day you know" he says to me "What's that mean to me? I've never had one". Why do I feel bad? maybe it's because I remember him as the little sweet boy he use to be. :cry: I sent him on his way with some body wash and a gallon of ice-tea.It was the least I could do. Right? Childofmine, I like your list of what you allow and don't allow. My son too slept in his car over the weekend. Said he got a horrible cramp from it.( The car is almost 15 years old.) he did say he will be looking for another job so with that I will have to talk my husband into allowing my son to shower at our house. I mean, he can't go to interviews smelling bad. But...I don't know how he's going to keep his job if he goes to jail. [/QUOTE]
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