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Am I enabling by feeding my son?
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 628854" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>While I am not married I have been with my boys father for the last (ummm, let me count..Jamie is turning 30) 31 years now. We have gone through the fires of hell raising our boys. Only one of them launched correctly. The other two definitely have failure to launch syndrome. The youngest has come and gone many times and is only back at our house now due to him having his 2 year old full time. We wanted her somewhere safe. The oldest one has simply never left except to live with his brother for a few months. Never lived on his own.</p><p></p><p>Back in January Tony and I had been arguing for months and we came to a decision that we had to do something drastic. Either the two of us were going to break up and go our separate ways or we had to get inventive. We got inventive. Tony and I decided to find a small place in town for us and rented out our home to our oldest son and our youngest son. With what they pay it pretty much covers our rent on our little place. </p><p></p><p>We are sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much happier here together. We dont have to buy food for everyone under the sun unless we invite them over for a meal. We dont have to pick up after people who just want to sit on their lazy butts. I can walk around naked if I want! </p><p></p><p>What we did is not for everyone and at some point we will go home again however for right now I dont want to leave this place. Im happy here. I was thinking about only staying here a year but now Im thinking maybe 2.... or 3...lol.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 628854, member: 1514"] While I am not married I have been with my boys father for the last (ummm, let me count..Jamie is turning 30) 31 years now. We have gone through the fires of hell raising our boys. Only one of them launched correctly. The other two definitely have failure to launch syndrome. The youngest has come and gone many times and is only back at our house now due to him having his 2 year old full time. We wanted her somewhere safe. The oldest one has simply never left except to live with his brother for a few months. Never lived on his own. Back in January Tony and I had been arguing for months and we came to a decision that we had to do something drastic. Either the two of us were going to break up and go our separate ways or we had to get inventive. We got inventive. Tony and I decided to find a small place in town for us and rented out our home to our oldest son and our youngest son. With what they pay it pretty much covers our rent on our little place. We are sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much happier here together. We dont have to buy food for everyone under the sun unless we invite them over for a meal. We dont have to pick up after people who just want to sit on their lazy butts. I can walk around naked if I want! What we did is not for everyone and at some point we will go home again however for right now I dont want to leave this place. Im happy here. I was thinking about only staying here a year but now Im thinking maybe 2.... or 3...lol. [/QUOTE]
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