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Am I enabling by feeding my son?
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<blockquote data-quote="Woriedmom" data-source="post: 628874" data-attributes="member: 18061"><p>yes we did get counseling . myself and my daughter and son. I feel I'm okay ( regarding what my x did to my daughter ) but I would like my son to get some extra counseling... whenever he can see that he does have a problem and wants to do something about it. He is an adult now and has to want to change which he can.</p><p>my husband needs to have his own healing from what his own father did to him...but again HE IS CHOOSING to be the way he is and unless HE comes to grips with his behavior nothing can be done. His father use to beat him bloody. Needless to say this is where His anger stems from. But hey... I endured hurt growing up but am making the choice to live right...or trying to anyhow. As any addiction you need to first recognize that one has a problem.</p><p></p><p>I need to keep telling myself regarding my sons substance abuse that it is HIM who is choosing this negative behavior. The minute I start thinking it was his past then I feel guilt...the kind that hurts like hell.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Woriedmom, post: 628874, member: 18061"] yes we did get counseling . myself and my daughter and son. I feel I'm okay ( regarding what my x did to my daughter ) but I would like my son to get some extra counseling... whenever he can see that he does have a problem and wants to do something about it. He is an adult now and has to want to change which he can. my husband needs to have his own healing from what his own father did to him...but again HE IS CHOOSING to be the way he is and unless HE comes to grips with his behavior nothing can be done. His father use to beat him bloody. Needless to say this is where His anger stems from. But hey... I endured hurt growing up but am making the choice to live right...or trying to anyhow. As any addiction you need to first recognize that one has a problem. I need to keep telling myself regarding my sons substance abuse that it is HIM who is choosing this negative behavior. The minute I start thinking it was his past then I feel guilt...the kind that hurts like hell. [/QUOTE]
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