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Am I enabling by feeding my son?
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<blockquote data-quote="Woriedmom" data-source="post: 628883" data-attributes="member: 18061"><p>Suz, I totally agree and that is why I'm going to stand my ground when it comes to my son in desperate need of a shower... if it comes to that. For all I know he's found a place by now, either that or he's using faucets in public bathrooms. yicks! hope not. I will keep you posted.</p><p></p><p>Oh and I did suggest to my husband going to <strong>family </strong>counseling, didn't go for it. we did have some marriage counseling with our church which did him good at first then didn't take long before going back into his dominating self. I've told him he's mean , unreasonable, controlling , etc.etc. even that he is acting out on his childhood. Does no good.I think I'll do a copy paste in an entirely different forum since this is a new kind of "conduct disorder" but for now I need to focus on one issue at a time.My son for now. </p><p>Otherwise...trust me when I say it would be too much to take on at the moment.</p><p></p><p>Let me add that although we all received the professional counseling, therapy etc.( the kids and I ) regarding my what my x did, much of my healing with all I've been through came from our church, well..I should say Jesus. He is the healer of healers, Bible says he's a comforter. I love the phrase that Childofmine refers to and has much meaning...and that is the serenity prayer. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>PS... I believe this is a website for dealing with our children...what if your married to one? <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/bull_head.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":bull_head:" title="bull_head :bull_head:" data-shortname=":bull_head:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Woriedmom, post: 628883, member: 18061"] Suz, I totally agree and that is why I'm going to stand my ground when it comes to my son in desperate need of a shower... if it comes to that. For all I know he's found a place by now, either that or he's using faucets in public bathrooms. yicks! hope not. I will keep you posted. Oh and I did suggest to my husband going to [B]family [/B]counseling, didn't go for it. we did have some marriage counseling with our church which did him good at first then didn't take long before going back into his dominating self. I've told him he's mean , unreasonable, controlling , etc.etc. even that he is acting out on his childhood. Does no good.I think I'll do a copy paste in an entirely different forum since this is a new kind of "conduct disorder" but for now I need to focus on one issue at a time.My son for now. Otherwise...trust me when I say it would be too much to take on at the moment. Let me add that although we all received the professional counseling, therapy etc.( the kids and I ) regarding my what my x did, much of my healing with all I've been through came from our church, well..I should say Jesus. He is the healer of healers, Bible says he's a comforter. I love the phrase that Childofmine refers to and has much meaning...and that is the serenity prayer. :) PS... I believe this is a website for dealing with our children...what if your married to one? :bull_head: [/QUOTE]
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