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Am I enabling by feeding my son?
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<blockquote data-quote="Woriedmom" data-source="post: 628966" data-attributes="member: 18061"><p>Stress Bunny, my son has never said anything or done anything to my husband...only a few words in the months past. He loves his little sister but I would in no means and never have trusted him with her. He is too careless as you say ...leaving his lighters in reach , in his room yes ...but still within reach. Neither he or my husband smoke in the house. I will admit I am an enabler in some ways...well, maybe in alot? I am willing to learn , first step was telling my son he can no longer live here. He called me over the weekend after he got off work early wanting to know if he could sleep in the house. It almost killed me to tell him no, he is not allowed at the house. I like what you said about him getting a job is not the answer to his abuse. Do you think the judge would see a steady job as a positive thing or much more beneficial for my son to check himself into a recovery house? I know this is another question altogether...probably should post it in the criminal background check thread but can anyone tell me what the judge will look at? For instance won't it look horrible if my son stands trial homeless? o.m.g!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Woriedmom, post: 628966, member: 18061"] Stress Bunny, my son has never said anything or done anything to my husband...only a few words in the months past. He loves his little sister but I would in no means and never have trusted him with her. He is too careless as you say ...leaving his lighters in reach , in his room yes ...but still within reach. Neither he or my husband smoke in the house. I will admit I am an enabler in some ways...well, maybe in alot? I am willing to learn , first step was telling my son he can no longer live here. He called me over the weekend after he got off work early wanting to know if he could sleep in the house. It almost killed me to tell him no, he is not allowed at the house. I like what you said about him getting a job is not the answer to his abuse. Do you think the judge would see a steady job as a positive thing or much more beneficial for my son to check himself into a recovery house? I know this is another question altogether...probably should post it in the criminal background check thread but can anyone tell me what the judge will look at? For instance won't it look horrible if my son stands trial homeless? o.m.g! [/QUOTE]
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