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<blockquote data-quote="GuideMe" data-source="post: 642300" data-attributes="member: 18233"><p>No you're not horrible. Who did you finally admit your feelings to and what did they say in return?</p><p></p><p>At this point, after 20 years, maybe it's time to be honest with all of them. I would go, so this way I can see them face to face, pull them into a private room (and I really don't care if it's Christmas or not) and basically demand to know , why after all these years, they treat you this way? Look them in the eye. Don't you think it's time? Be prepared for not so nice answers and if they mention you things you might have done to upset them, apologize for it or don't. Say we are going to talk about this and have closure one way or the other. If you don't want to do that, at least do it by phone. It's time to clear the air this holiday season so this way you don't have to feel like this every time the holidays roll around. Personally, I think these things are done better face to face, if your family is not aggressive or violent of course. Time to have a come to Jesus moment with these people.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GuideMe, post: 642300, member: 18233"] No you're not horrible. Who did you finally admit your feelings to and what did they say in return? At this point, after 20 years, maybe it's time to be honest with all of them. I would go, so this way I can see them face to face, pull them into a private room (and I really don't care if it's Christmas or not) and basically demand to know , why after all these years, they treat you this way? Look them in the eye. Don't you think it's time? Be prepared for not so nice answers and if they mention you things you might have done to upset them, apologize for it or don't. Say we are going to talk about this and have closure one way or the other. If you don't want to do that, at least do it by phone. It's time to clear the air this holiday season so this way you don't have to feel like this every time the holidays roll around. Personally, I think these things are done better face to face, if your family is not aggressive or violent of course. Time to have a come to Jesus moment with these people. [/QUOTE]
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