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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 219681" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>Susie, I don't think you're being mean.</p><p>You're letting your H experience the natural consequences of his actions (or in this case, his INactions)</p><p></p><p>The one question I want to ask you is, Who will suffer most from not having a tree?</p><p></p><p>If it's H, and you and the kids don't mind the absence of a tree, then on his head be it.</p><p>If you're going to be saddened by not having a tree, then consider whether it's worth standing your ground. Maybe get a small potted evergreen that can survive outside in the yard?</p><p>If it's the kids that are going to be hurt the most, then I would consider getting a tree anyway. Not a pre-lit tree, but one that you and the kids will really like, without any reference to what husband wants.</p><p></p><p>Just want to make sure that in making your point, you're not cutting off your nose to spite your face.</p><p></p><p>But no. You're not being mean. Justifably angry, yes. Mean, no.</p><p></p><p>Sorry husband is being a PITA,</p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 219681, member: 3907"] Susie, I don't think you're being mean. You're letting your H experience the natural consequences of his actions (or in this case, his INactions) The one question I want to ask you is, Who will suffer most from not having a tree? If it's H, and you and the kids don't mind the absence of a tree, then on his head be it. If you're going to be saddened by not having a tree, then consider whether it's worth standing your ground. Maybe get a small potted evergreen that can survive outside in the yard? If it's the kids that are going to be hurt the most, then I would consider getting a tree anyway. Not a pre-lit tree, but one that you and the kids will really like, without any reference to what husband wants. Just want to make sure that in making your point, you're not cutting off your nose to spite your face. But no. You're not being mean. Justifably angry, yes. Mean, no. Sorry husband is being a PITA, Trinity [/QUOTE]
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