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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 219884" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">Sending hugs - ho frustrating, I feel your pain.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">If it were me, since I like a holiday tree and I like them on the smallish size, I would go get me a tree - for ME. And I would put it in a spot of my choosing, one where I could really appreciate it, and I would put lights on it that <em>I</em> liked and decorate it accordingly in the style that <em>I </em>like. Then I would enjoy it. I would not include H in any of it - not the choosing, not the lighting or decorating and not the enjoyment of it. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">Then I would buy a blank card for H and inside I would tell him that I really wanted to enjoy the holiday season as a couple and the first step in doing so would be for him to dispose of the unsightly tree from last year, kiss my behind for a few days and buy me something sparkly for Christmas this year. Then <em>and only then </em>will I sit on the couch with him and admire MY tree. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #4b0082">If it's going to just burn inside of you not to have a nice tree and decorations...and if it's just going to keep you in a constant state of pissedoffness, then I would seriously consider finding a way to move past it and please yourself, with or without H helping. Yes, he's being a toad, but why let him ruin your holiday? Bieng all happy and festive may end up being a way to rub his nose in it and make him feel badly enough to finally get rid of the old tree. Why does Christmas have to be all about him anyway?</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 219884, member: 2211"] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]Sending hugs - ho frustrating, I feel your pain.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]If it were me, since I like a holiday tree and I like them on the smallish size, I would go get me a tree - for ME. And I would put it in a spot of my choosing, one where I could really appreciate it, and I would put lights on it that [I]I[/I] liked and decorate it accordingly in the style that [I]I [/I]like. Then I would enjoy it. I would not include H in any of it - not the choosing, not the lighting or decorating and not the enjoyment of it. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]Then I would buy a blank card for H and inside I would tell him that I really wanted to enjoy the holiday season as a couple and the first step in doing so would be for him to dispose of the unsightly tree from last year, kiss my behind for a few days and buy me something sparkly for Christmas this year. Then [I]and only then [/I]will I sit on the couch with him and admire MY tree. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=#4b0082][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=#4b0082]If it's going to just burn inside of you not to have a nice tree and decorations...and if it's just going to keep you in a constant state of pissedoffness, then I would seriously consider finding a way to move past it and please yourself, with or without H helping. Yes, he's being a toad, but why let him ruin your holiday? Bieng all happy and festive may end up being a way to rub his nose in it and make him feel badly enough to finally get rid of the old tree. Why does Christmas have to be all about him anyway?[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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