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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 231426" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Well, that's after a mom of another boy at school let my son spend the night and I had no idea where he was. He was 11yo, took the bus home with this boy, told the boy's mom that I said he could spend the night. He had no clothes or any other indicator that he'd gone to school that day prepared for a sleep-over, we'd never met or spoken, and she apparently bought that story. I went thru the roof. I told her I can't imagine EVER having an 11 yo sleep in my house without directly talking with the parent.</p><p></p><p>But, difficult child has had a good friend in our neighborhood and they've spent the night with each other several times, his mom and I spoke several times, they've been allowed to go out with each others' families. He lives 4 blocks from us. One day I picked up difficult child at the bus stop because it was pouring down rain, and I did offer to give this boy a ride to his house so he wouldn't have to walk in the rain. </p><p></p><p>Still- if I were you, I'd start out by finding out who is driving her and determining if it is a well-intentioned parent first. If so, they should have spoken to you about it. It could be some perverted man acting like a well-intentioned parent, too.</p><p></p><p>And as far as I'm concerned- there is a BIG difference between a 13yo and a 17 yo even if the 13 yo is giving their consent.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 231426, member: 3699"] Well, that's after a mom of another boy at school let my son spend the night and I had no idea where he was. He was 11yo, took the bus home with this boy, told the boy's mom that I said he could spend the night. He had no clothes or any other indicator that he'd gone to school that day prepared for a sleep-over, we'd never met or spoken, and she apparently bought that story. I went thru the roof. I told her I can't imagine EVER having an 11 yo sleep in my house without directly talking with the parent. But, difficult child has had a good friend in our neighborhood and they've spent the night with each other several times, his mom and I spoke several times, they've been allowed to go out with each others' families. He lives 4 blocks from us. One day I picked up difficult child at the bus stop because it was pouring down rain, and I did offer to give this boy a ride to his house so he wouldn't have to walk in the rain. Still- if I were you, I'd start out by finding out who is driving her and determining if it is a well-intentioned parent first. If so, they should have spoken to you about it. It could be some perverted man acting like a well-intentioned parent, too. And as far as I'm concerned- there is a BIG difference between a 13yo and a 17 yo even if the 13 yo is giving their consent. [/QUOTE]
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