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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 713406" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Thanks for sharimg, Lil. This friend barely knows my husband. My relationship with her didnt involve him. She is going strictly by her opinion of good looks and money and what I have told her. Yet she has broken up with a handsome nice guy with money and goes back to her bad boys. Obviously, in your late 50s/early 60s "bad boys" are men who have never had good relationships. Never grown up.</p><p></p><p>You get who you believe you deserve maybe? Or you just get lucky, like I did. And you. According to friend, nice guys bore her.</p><p></p><p>Lil, I feel bad for my friend and tried hard to encourage her to stop picking men who cant love. Last I heard, she is still on a destructive path. I feel for her pain. I tried to help. You know what we say here though...we cant control another person. Or fix them. Or tell them how to talk to us. She is who she is.</p><p></p><p>I am grateful you checked in, Lil. I value your opinion. She has said this more than once and I always wondered why she said "he is not for me, but...". She speaks deliberately. It was not a blurt nor one time. She could just as readily said,"He is perfect for you!" Period.</p><p></p><p>I am relieved to finally be weeding toxic people out of my life. But I tend to have a guilty conscience so it helps to post here. This is something, one of very few, that Ive never shared with husband, although he would probably laugh. The little he knows of this woman, he is not impressed.</p><p></p><p>Thanks again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 713406, member: 1550"] Thanks for sharimg, Lil. This friend barely knows my husband. My relationship with her didnt involve him. She is going strictly by her opinion of good looks and money and what I have told her. Yet she has broken up with a handsome nice guy with money and goes back to her bad boys. Obviously, in your late 50s/early 60s "bad boys" are men who have never had good relationships. Never grown up. You get who you believe you deserve maybe? Or you just get lucky, like I did. And you. According to friend, nice guys bore her. Lil, I feel bad for my friend and tried hard to encourage her to stop picking men who cant love. Last I heard, she is still on a destructive path. I feel for her pain. I tried to help. You know what we say here though...we cant control another person. Or fix them. Or tell them how to talk to us. She is who she is. I am grateful you checked in, Lil. I value your opinion. She has said this more than once and I always wondered why she said "he is not for me, but...". She speaks deliberately. It was not a blurt nor one time. She could just as readily said,"He is perfect for you!" Period. I am relieved to finally be weeding toxic people out of my life. But I tend to have a guilty conscience so it helps to post here. This is something, one of very few, that Ive never shared with husband, although he would probably laugh. The little he knows of this woman, he is not impressed. Thanks again. [/QUOTE]
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