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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 424159" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Tammy...I think you just hit something dead on the head for me! Thank you! </p><p></p><p>For oh so many years I have given everything to my kids and now the grandkids. I have rarely spent a dime on me or even Tony. Literally I just bought the first new pair of shoes in 3 years for myself! Well...I did buy a pair of those 10 dollar flats to have for dressy things back when we had the reunion and I wore them at the funeral too but I got them at walmart and they are something that I dont wear everyday. My everyday shoes were tennis shoes that were Sketchers that I got 3 years ago for free off Freecycle. I got two new pair of shoes two weeks ago, nice ones...Sketchers and Easy Spirits, and I bought a new purse, and you would have thought I suddenly became Emelda Marcos...lol. I deserve it. Tony deserves it. If we can finally get something from JCpenny's instead of goodwill or Walmart, why do I have to feel badly? </p><p></p><p>I shouldnt. I should learn to allow him to feel what I felt to get to this point so he knows how it feels to feel good about doing for himself. Only one way to do that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 424159, member: 1514"] Tammy...I think you just hit something dead on the head for me! Thank you! For oh so many years I have given everything to my kids and now the grandkids. I have rarely spent a dime on me or even Tony. Literally I just bought the first new pair of shoes in 3 years for myself! Well...I did buy a pair of those 10 dollar flats to have for dressy things back when we had the reunion and I wore them at the funeral too but I got them at walmart and they are something that I dont wear everyday. My everyday shoes were tennis shoes that were Sketchers that I got 3 years ago for free off Freecycle. I got two new pair of shoes two weeks ago, nice ones...Sketchers and Easy Spirits, and I bought a new purse, and you would have thought I suddenly became Emelda Marcos...lol. I deserve it. Tony deserves it. If we can finally get something from JCpenny's instead of goodwill or Walmart, why do I have to feel badly? I shouldnt. I should learn to allow him to feel what I felt to get to this point so he knows how it feels to feel good about doing for himself. Only one way to do that. [/QUOTE]
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