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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 462525" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>I was thinking along the lines of daughter but also opposite. I think it's important for you to go visit, but leave the gameboy at home. Or if the place allows, just mail him the gameboy, and then see how often he wants to visit with you.</p><p></p><p>I think the visits should be just that - visits. Not a lunch out, not bringing "stuff". Just visits. That way you are showing him that HE is important, that you want to spend time with HIM. Whether he chooses to accept or reject the time you are offering him is his choice. He needs to recognize that the visit itself is the reward, and the only way to try and get it through to him is by showing him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 462525, member: 11965"] I was thinking along the lines of daughter but also opposite. I think it's important for you to go visit, but leave the gameboy at home. Or if the place allows, just mail him the gameboy, and then see how often he wants to visit with you. I think the visits should be just that - visits. Not a lunch out, not bringing "stuff". Just visits. That way you are showing him that HE is important, that you want to spend time with HIM. Whether he chooses to accept or reject the time you are offering him is his choice. He needs to recognize that the visit itself is the reward, and the only way to try and get it through to him is by showing him. [/QUOTE]
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