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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 504832" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>It's probably a good thing I haven't watched it then. </p><p></p><p>My mom couldn't separate behavior from the person, she still can't. If you did everything she wanted/ordered you to do you might be considered good. (notice the *might*) If not, you were bad. Or you could just tick her off or come near her at a bad moment in her day and be *bad* (if not worse). </p><p></p><p>My sibs still suffer from self esteem issues, I got therapy and still have some issues but nothing like theirs. My mom for the life of her can't figure out where their issues come from. *sigh*</p><p></p><p>I taught my kids like your mom did. </p><p></p><p>I can't stomach someone who tells a kid they're bad, even if I know they're referring to the behavior......make it clear to the CHILD you're referring to the behavior. They can't read your mind.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 504832, member: 84"] It's probably a good thing I haven't watched it then. My mom couldn't separate behavior from the person, she still can't. If you did everything she wanted/ordered you to do you might be considered good. (notice the *might*) If not, you were bad. Or you could just tick her off or come near her at a bad moment in her day and be *bad* (if not worse). My sibs still suffer from self esteem issues, I got therapy and still have some issues but nothing like theirs. My mom for the life of her can't figure out where their issues come from. *sigh* I taught my kids like your mom did. I can't stomach someone who tells a kid they're bad, even if I know they're referring to the behavior......make it clear to the CHILD you're referring to the behavior. They can't read your mind. [/QUOTE]
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