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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 283707" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>Thanks, Star!</p><p> </p><p>Did you notice what I did? The class we are taking is to improve our "parenting" skills. The assignment was to "show our children we love them".</p><p> </p><p>But frankly, I am so sick and tired of difficult child telling counselors "my parents don't love me" (and of course, then the counselors telling me that this whole situation is all my fault <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite4" alt=":mad:" title="Mad :mad:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":mad:" />)....that I decided to make the assignment apply to the whole family so that difficult child could see for herself that she seems to be the only person NOT actively engaged in trying to help HER.</p><p> </p><p>My goal is for difficult child to realize that she (and she alone) has to take responsibility for her actions and interactions.</p><p> </p><p>Two days in a row she had aboslutely nothing to say or to offer as a demonstration that she loved her family.....and yet she herself had no trouble identifying all of the things the other family members were doing to demonstrate love for her.</p><p> </p><p>Today is day three....</p><p> </p><p>difficult child made me a ham sandwich and brought it to me while I was working on the computer in my office.</p><p> </p><p>How huge is that?</p><p> </p><p><img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite8" alt=":D" title="Big Grin :D" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":D" /></p><p> </p><p>--DaisyF</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 283707, member: 6546"] Thanks, Star! Did you notice what I did? The class we are taking is to improve our "parenting" skills. The assignment was to "show our children we love them". But frankly, I am so sick and tired of difficult child telling counselors "my parents don't love me" (and of course, then the counselors telling me that this whole situation is all my fault :angry:)....that I decided to make the assignment apply to the whole family so that difficult child could see for herself that she seems to be the only person NOT actively engaged in trying to help HER. My goal is for difficult child to realize that she (and she alone) has to take responsibility for her actions and interactions. Two days in a row she had aboslutely nothing to say or to offer as a demonstration that she loved her family.....and yet she herself had no trouble identifying all of the things the other family members were doing to demonstrate love for her. Today is day three.... difficult child made me a ham sandwich and brought it to me while I was working on the computer in my office. How huge is that? :happy: --DaisyF [/QUOTE]
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