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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 179210" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Short word</p><p>Very good to know</p><p>Doesn't de escalate, but doesn't give reason TO escalate </p><p>Taught to us by our therapist (very good man) </p><p> </p><p> </p><p>Ready? </p><p> </p><p>This is really not going to take ANY effort on your part.</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>The words </p><p> </p><p>Uh Huh. (must be said like you're reading a book, and trying to listen to someone talk about a boring subject you could care nothing about)</p><p> </p><p>Uh huh.....</p><p> </p><p>difficult child: You're a dumb #SS - uh huh - AND </p><p>YOU:THAT"S an extra week for disrespecting language</p><p> </p><p>difficult child:OHHHHHHH YOU REALLY ARE A JE(I#)($#)_</p><p>YOU:Uh huh - and now thats 2 weeks</p><p> </p><p>difficult child:YOU ARE A$#U$#)#)(I</p><p>YOU:Uh huh - you're up to being done with grounding on September 5th now. </p><p> </p><p>difficult child:ARhhhhhhhhh </p><p>YOU:uh huh</p><p> </p><p>Then you just walk away - leveling consequences = if you have them for being the Mom in your own home and being called foul names - and just calmy and assertively - keep racking up the consequences. THen STICK to them. </p><p> </p><p>I think except for the part where she repeatedly calls you names and got no consequence? You did well - but some will tell you to ignore the language and some will tell you no way. That's up to you! But if I just called you that name - for no good reason - how would you feel? Why then is it different for our kids with some? Don't know - don't want a debate but just doesn't happen in our house.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 179210, member: 4964"] Short word Very good to know Doesn't de escalate, but doesn't give reason TO escalate Taught to us by our therapist (very good man) Ready? This is really not going to take ANY effort on your part. The words Uh Huh. (must be said like you're reading a book, and trying to listen to someone talk about a boring subject you could care nothing about) Uh huh..... difficult child: You're a dumb #SS - uh huh - AND YOU:THAT"S an extra week for disrespecting language difficult child:OHHHHHHH YOU REALLY ARE A JE(I#)($#)_ YOU:Uh huh - and now thats 2 weeks difficult child:YOU ARE A$#U$#)#)(I YOU:Uh huh - you're up to being done with grounding on September 5th now. difficult child:ARhhhhhhhhh YOU:uh huh Then you just walk away - leveling consequences = if you have them for being the Mom in your own home and being called foul names - and just calmy and assertively - keep racking up the consequences. THen STICK to them. I think except for the part where she repeatedly calls you names and got no consequence? You did well - but some will tell you to ignore the language and some will tell you no way. That's up to you! But if I just called you that name - for no good reason - how would you feel? Why then is it different for our kids with some? Don't know - don't want a debate but just doesn't happen in our house. [/QUOTE]
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