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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 630780" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Ha! Echo, I love you. This is most cool.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I agree and Echo? I think this is a God given opportunity for difficult child. </p><p></p><p>And for you.</p><p></p><p><em>You stuck to your guns, Echo. This was a test. There is no way difficult child did not know what you SAID was going to happen. He was testing you, Echo. Before he slipped too far, before he lost touch with sponsors and helpers for housing and etc.</em></p><p></p><p>Echo, I could not possibly be more proud of and for you. You did everything exactly right, you tennis playing little hussy, you!</p><p></p><p>And Echo, this is best for difficult child. Now he knows where he stands. He knows the rejection is on him. He knows he chose it. He knows you will not see him if he goes back to the bad ways, but that you believe that choice to be his to make. </p><p></p><p>That is important.</p><p></p><p>I think he would not have taken the risk, Echo, unless he knew he could make it on his own with the assistance that is out there.</p><p></p><p>I am so glad SO realized the $ was gone.</p><p></p><p>And...could difficult child have been more obvious?</p><p></p><p>I think he did it on purpose, Echo. He tested you and you stood up so beautifully!</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p><p></p><p>I know it's hard, Echo. I'm sorry it turned out this way. But Echo, difficult child knew he was wrong and then, he lied. </p><p></p><p>Had you gone back to the old ways, that would be worse.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes, there are no good solutions. But there are better solutions. As parents of difficult child kids, we have to keep our feet on the ground and our hearts free of judgment, and that is all we can do.</p><p></p><p>And that is enough.</p><p></p><p>Though I will definitely keep that tennis playing sans underwear in mind.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 630780, member: 17461"] Ha! Echo, I love you. This is most cool. I agree and Echo? I think this is a God given opportunity for difficult child. And for you. [I]You stuck to your guns, Echo. This was a test. There is no way difficult child did not know what you SAID was going to happen. He was testing you, Echo. Before he slipped too far, before he lost touch with sponsors and helpers for housing and etc.[/I] Echo, I could not possibly be more proud of and for you. You did everything exactly right, you tennis playing little hussy, you! And Echo, this is best for difficult child. Now he knows where he stands. He knows the rejection is on him. He knows he chose it. He knows you will not see him if he goes back to the bad ways, but that you believe that choice to be his to make. That is important. I think he would not have taken the risk, Echo, unless he knew he could make it on his own with the assistance that is out there. I am so glad SO realized the $ was gone. And...could difficult child have been more obvious? I think he did it on purpose, Echo. He tested you and you stood up so beautifully! :O) Cedar I know it's hard, Echo. I'm sorry it turned out this way. But Echo, difficult child knew he was wrong and then, he lied. Had you gone back to the old ways, that would be worse. Sometimes, there are no good solutions. But there are better solutions. As parents of difficult child kids, we have to keep our feet on the ground and our hearts free of judgment, and that is all we can do. And that is enough. Though I will definitely keep that tennis playing sans underwear in mind. [/QUOTE]
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