Well, the day is soon coming when Andre has to go to court to face the charges he got when he was found driving his bicycle drunk... and of course when they brought the K9 they found drugs on him.. He will be tried as an adult... I don't know if the check kiting charges will have caught up with him yet by then... Just need thoughts as I deal with my multiple personality disorder... your know the one says.... be stoic ... be strong... don't rescue... don't crumble.. this is not your problem... he needs to face the consequences for his actions and the other one says.. OMG, my baby is going to be charged as an adult and may face adult jail time.. he is on the street and homeless... I need to rescue him... maybe I did something wrong raising him.. maybe if I help him one more time he will turn out ok... maybe... my poooooor baby!!! Well anyway... as long as the second personality doesn't show up AT ALL while I talk to Andre, I should be pretty good... and as long as I quiet the "mommy heart" personality and obey the brain.... the one that knows all the hardships, all the blood sweat and tears endured because of this person.. I will be ok... Mommy heart GET ON THE BACK BURNER !!!!