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<blockquote data-quote="samsdad" data-source="post: 253682" data-attributes="member: 7005"><p>It started just after we moved into our new house and his new/old school. There was a lot of "I don't like the new house" "I don't like my new school" now it has progressed to "I dont like ..." " I never want to do... ever again" "I dont like you anymore" "You are not my best friend". These things I understand and really think we can work with. The items of concern are the hitting spitting and yelling at Former care providers. He would not dream of doing the hitting or spitting at home though he does yell (see above and replace with all caps. The last provider claimed to understand and thought she was able to handle it, but on the second day I get a call telling me I need to pick him up immediately after he spit in her face. I was embarrased!!!!! I was also hurt that my son would think to do such things. I will say that same day I had called at 10:45am after approx 3 hours there and no issues, he is an angel, he helps with others, etc. then she tried to correct him. Well I am still rereading for the fifth time the explosive child book and really trying to adapt it to my sons situation. I really need help with the on and off switch that controls the issues. Triggers from our list include: bedtime, wakeup time, dinner time, clean up time etc... Somehow we accidentally hit this switch when we ask anything of him. Not all the time, but enough to cause me and my wife extreme sorrow for him. thanks in advance to all replies as an engineer I know there are no bad replies only bad execution of those replies.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="samsdad, post: 253682, member: 7005"] It started just after we moved into our new house and his new/old school. There was a lot of "I don't like the new house" "I don't like my new school" now it has progressed to "I dont like ..." " I never want to do... ever again" "I dont like you anymore" "You are not my best friend". These things I understand and really think we can work with. The items of concern are the hitting spitting and yelling at Former care providers. He would not dream of doing the hitting or spitting at home though he does yell (see above and replace with all caps. The last provider claimed to understand and thought she was able to handle it, but on the second day I get a call telling me I need to pick him up immediately after he spit in her face. I was embarrased!!!!! I was also hurt that my son would think to do such things. I will say that same day I had called at 10:45am after approx 3 hours there and no issues, he is an angel, he helps with others, etc. then she tried to correct him. Well I am still rereading for the fifth time the explosive child book and really trying to adapt it to my sons situation. I really need help with the on and off switch that controls the issues. Triggers from our list include: bedtime, wakeup time, dinner time, clean up time etc... Somehow we accidentally hit this switch when we ask anything of him. Not all the time, but enough to cause me and my wife extreme sorrow for him. thanks in advance to all replies as an engineer I know there are no bad replies only bad execution of those replies. [/QUOTE]
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