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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 578644" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>Thanks, Ktllc. Those are helpful ideas. I'm a bit thrown with this because it is only the second time J has had a REALLY big meltdown like this, and both times in public, which is totally new. Both times they occurred because (he said) he wanted to play and was being prevented... Both times they occurred at the end of the day, possibly both times when hungry. I have decided that on Fridays I will pick him up straight after school, not leave him in after-care - tomorrow I will lure him with the promise of going into town to buy him a small toy as I have just been paid and haven't bought him a toy for a long time <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> - and on Wednesdays I think I will pick him up after lunch from the play centre and we'll spend time together before he goes to his karate class. </p><p></p><p>I REALLY want to avoid this becoming some sort of habit. I know J did this because he'd done it a few days earlier, if that makes sense... I am very concerned that he does not start raging to communicate - totally unnecessary and I really do believe he has enough skills to avoid it. Hope I do too <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 578644, member: 11227"] Thanks, Ktllc. Those are helpful ideas. I'm a bit thrown with this because it is only the second time J has had a REALLY big meltdown like this, and both times in public, which is totally new. Both times they occurred because (he said) he wanted to play and was being prevented... Both times they occurred at the end of the day, possibly both times when hungry. I have decided that on Fridays I will pick him up straight after school, not leave him in after-care - tomorrow I will lure him with the promise of going into town to buy him a small toy as I have just been paid and haven't bought him a toy for a long time :) - and on Wednesdays I think I will pick him up after lunch from the play centre and we'll spend time together before he goes to his karate class. I REALLY want to avoid this becoming some sort of habit. I know J did this because he'd done it a few days earlier, if that makes sense... I am very concerned that he does not start raging to communicate - totally unnecessary and I really do believe he has enough skills to avoid it. Hope I do too :) [/QUOTE]
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