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<blockquote data-quote="whatamess" data-source="post: 578816" data-attributes="member: 7664"><p>Malika, you came with a particular problem about an incident that occured and mentioned this is the second time it has happened in this intense way. While I appreciate your reminder that this isn't his regular way of dealing with problems, it is the problem you posted about and it was distressing enough to you to look for support to maybe figure it out or prevent it from occuring again. Saying this isn't how he usually handles himself sounds like you are now downplaying this most recent problem. I read your posts and from them I can glean a 'big picture' of J and a big picture of you and I based my response to your specific post with that in mind. I think you instinctively know that J is doing the best he can, but the confounding element is the social pressure you feel in relation to 'fixing' any out-of-the-ordinary behavior.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="whatamess, post: 578816, member: 7664"] Malika, you came with a particular problem about an incident that occured and mentioned this is the second time it has happened in this intense way. While I appreciate your reminder that this isn't his regular way of dealing with problems, it is the problem you posted about and it was distressing enough to you to look for support to maybe figure it out or prevent it from occuring again. Saying this isn't how he usually handles himself sounds like you are now downplaying this most recent problem. I read your posts and from them I can glean a 'big picture' of J and a big picture of you and I based my response to your specific post with that in mind. I think you instinctively know that J is doing the best he can, but the confounding element is the social pressure you feel in relation to 'fixing' any out-of-the-ordinary behavior. [/QUOTE]
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