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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 19325" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>Protective orders are only paper. If he shows up and she calls 911, he is still there and able to do what he wants until the police show up.</p><p></p><p>If they shared the apartment together, I am sure the fire will be fueled if she removes his things and plans on staying there without him. He will know where she is and he will be familar enough with the place to know how to get in if he wants to, regardless of changing the locks. Doors can be busted open and windows can be broken.</p><p></p><p>Alice lee I hope that she will just talk to one person that can share her story. They always think that the abuser loves them and won't go to the extreme with them. All the survivor's of abuse know that is not true. Each time gets worse. The more angry he is the worse he will react.</p><p></p><p>I think sitting in jail ~ he thinks she put him there, he thinks if she hadn't call the police and told on him that he would not be there ~~ he is mad</p><p></p><p>I also think getting out and seeing his stuff removed from the apartment will just compound his anger</p><p></p><p>When you deal with an abusive man he is not thinking on the same line as others. Your daughter is his, in his eyes, his property, not only has she left him but she had the nerve to put him in jail, then she threw out his things.</p><p></p><p>I would talk to your daughter about what she plans to do when he shows up again. Even if he is in jail now, even if he serves time and has to take a class ~~~~ he will be back, they don't let go</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 19325, member: 2389"] Protective orders are only paper. If he shows up and she calls 911, he is still there and able to do what he wants until the police show up. If they shared the apartment together, I am sure the fire will be fueled if she removes his things and plans on staying there without him. He will know where she is and he will be familar enough with the place to know how to get in if he wants to, regardless of changing the locks. Doors can be busted open and windows can be broken. Alice lee I hope that she will just talk to one person that can share her story. They always think that the abuser loves them and won't go to the extreme with them. All the survivor's of abuse know that is not true. Each time gets worse. The more angry he is the worse he will react. I think sitting in jail ~ he thinks she put him there, he thinks if she hadn't call the police and told on him that he would not be there ~~ he is mad I also think getting out and seeing his stuff removed from the apartment will just compound his anger When you deal with an abusive man he is not thinking on the same line as others. Your daughter is his, in his eyes, his property, not only has she left him but she had the nerve to put him in jail, then she threw out his things. I would talk to your daughter about what she plans to do when he shows up again. Even if he is in jail now, even if he serves time and has to take a class ~~~~ he will be back, they don't let go [/QUOTE]
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