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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 617148" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>Cedar, I have to echo what Recovering said (and I don't want to interpret for her, but I thought I heard a note of concern for you) in that you are going SO FAST in your discovery and unlayering...it has to be hard that way (well it is hard either way). I get that you are going fast because that is right for you, because you are in an unstoppable mode of self-exploration and either your life or your psyche is demanding it right now, and thriving on it...I guess just...remember to be gentle with yourself, and with those around you who are less enlightened, who are not moving as fast. They may move faster on another day.</p><p>I get the feeling of disloyalty about husband...NO relationship is easy, and we always have the opportunity to look askew at people we love...and sometimes we have in fact loved people for too long....and sometimes they can't keep up with our personal growth. All those things are true. I guess.....just...remember as Thich Nhat Hahn, whom I remember you liked, says...try to remember that at bottom we all just want to feel safe and loved. That tiny child voice in there hoping for those little things is in all of us. Sometimes it helps to remember that about the big galout grown ups around us...It can help get us back to the place of love and acceptance, if that is the way to go.</p><p>Fondly,</p><p>Echo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 617148, member: 17269"] Cedar, I have to echo what Recovering said (and I don't want to interpret for her, but I thought I heard a note of concern for you) in that you are going SO FAST in your discovery and unlayering...it has to be hard that way (well it is hard either way). I get that you are going fast because that is right for you, because you are in an unstoppable mode of self-exploration and either your life or your psyche is demanding it right now, and thriving on it...I guess just...remember to be gentle with yourself, and with those around you who are less enlightened, who are not moving as fast. They may move faster on another day. I get the feeling of disloyalty about husband...NO relationship is easy, and we always have the opportunity to look askew at people we love...and sometimes we have in fact loved people for too long....and sometimes they can't keep up with our personal growth. All those things are true. I guess.....just...remember as Thich Nhat Hahn, whom I remember you liked, says...try to remember that at bottom we all just want to feel safe and loved. That tiny child voice in there hoping for those little things is in all of us. Sometimes it helps to remember that about the big galout grown ups around us...It can help get us back to the place of love and acceptance, if that is the way to go. Fondly, Echo [/QUOTE]
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