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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 617189" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Thank you, Echolette. You are right. I did hear the note of caution in Recovering's observations. </p><p></p><p>You are right too, that I have been so angry, so focused on what that was and what that was about and how to handle feelings I have always stuffed away and now, am trying to encourage that I forgot about simple kindness.</p><p></p><p>I forgot about simple kindness.</p><p></p><p>I forgot that husband is operating on, and escalating, old patterns. (Patterns which once made me feel safe; patterns which I once required.) I did forget to hear, and comfort and cherish, that little boy inside husband, scared of changes he did not anticipate or ask for. </p><p></p><p>Those same little people live in the hearts of each of my children, too.</p><p></p><p>I do want to remember that; I do want to be so aware of that, Echolette.</p><p></p><p>In the dream I had about flying so fast and landing so hard...perhaps this is the caution I need, to make the landing survivable. To remember kindness....</p><p></p><p>Thank you very much, Echolette.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 617189, member: 17461"] Thank you, Echolette. You are right. I did hear the note of caution in Recovering's observations. You are right too, that I have been so angry, so focused on what that was and what that was about and how to handle feelings I have always stuffed away and now, am trying to encourage that I forgot about simple kindness. I forgot about simple kindness. I forgot that husband is operating on, and escalating, old patterns. (Patterns which once made me feel safe; patterns which I once required.) I did forget to hear, and comfort and cherish, that little boy inside husband, scared of changes he did not anticipate or ask for. Those same little people live in the hearts of each of my children, too. I do want to remember that; I do want to be so aware of that, Echolette. In the dream I had about flying so fast and landing so hard...perhaps this is the caution I need, to make the landing survivable. To remember kindness.... Thank you very much, Echolette. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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