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Another H. update. Sigh.
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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 170293" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Yea. I mean, really why do I care about any of this? I have no power or control over any of this. Well, actually, if I went to court I would have as much legal right as my parent's to H's estate. But when she died, they quickly seized control since they have the money to pay people.</p><p></p><p>I just talked to them, and told them what I felt strongly in my heart needed to happen, and once again they were so dismissive of me. "We will try and respect all parties involved" is what they told me. Um, OK. What the hay does that mean?</p><p></p><p>I feel so strongly in my heart that something is wrong. I can't explain it. </p><p></p><p>I guess it is only "things" and "money", and it should not matter. H. is what matters. But I feel M and A are being so disrespectful of her that it matters to me an inordinate amount. I mean, come on, M and H. were only together for a year. How connected can you be after a year? Certainly not a lifetime of carrying on H's legacy.</p><p></p><p>You know, my parents and I get along OK when it does not involve any family dynamics. But the minute you put me back in the daughter role, I become this part in their minds that is unchangeable. They have seen me succeed on so many levels, and yet when I am their "daughter", I am not to be respected, listened to, or valued. I felt so sad today, to see their grief and visible pain over H., but now when I tried to talk to them, and they once again dismissed me...........geesh. No words.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 170293, member: 3301"] Yea. I mean, really why do I care about any of this? I have no power or control over any of this. Well, actually, if I went to court I would have as much legal right as my parent's to H's estate. But when she died, they quickly seized control since they have the money to pay people. I just talked to them, and told them what I felt strongly in my heart needed to happen, and once again they were so dismissive of me. "We will try and respect all parties involved" is what they told me. Um, OK. What the hay does that mean? I feel so strongly in my heart that something is wrong. I can't explain it. I guess it is only "things" and "money", and it should not matter. H. is what matters. But I feel M and A are being so disrespectful of her that it matters to me an inordinate amount. I mean, come on, M and H. were only together for a year. How connected can you be after a year? Certainly not a lifetime of carrying on H's legacy. You know, my parents and I get along OK when it does not involve any family dynamics. But the minute you put me back in the daughter role, I become this part in their minds that is unchangeable. They have seen me succeed on so many levels, and yet when I am their "daughter", I am not to be respected, listened to, or valued. I felt so sad today, to see their grief and visible pain over H., but now when I tried to talk to them, and they once again dismissed me...........geesh. No words. [/QUOTE]
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