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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 612938"><p>MidwestMom- I just wish there was no problems <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> </p><p></p><p>bby31288- I know what MidwestMom is saying... its so hard on what to believe when my ex blames me.. my family history.. and I swear his <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p></p><p>dstc_99 Your not being mean, you have also been another helpful person here <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> I understand what your saying and I do need more help..School District subbing is just not full time but I am still planning on getting help in the mornings for him( ill be here to). Weekends as well. My friend would help me but I leaned on her too much. I know what your saying about sending him with dad but I still am uneasy for more then the time period allowed. Plus- dad lives in another state. My daughter still would not be 100% happy with him.. the relief of her brother gone in a way yes, make her a little happy but she knows how her dad is and has seen and heard a lot over the years and I feel thats why my daughter is that way about him as well. Plus my ex already said.. once he gets one child of ours.. he will go for both no matter what and make me pay child support for a change. I am not scared of paying support, I just want my babies with me! My kids older half brothers esp the oldest ( fathers kids)wants nothing to do with their dad at this point either. The other mother and I encourage them to but they know their dad isnt a full time dad even when in the same state. We do not talk bad about him either. I always try to praise their dad how smart he is when he was in school,how good he is at his job, other compliments. Because my kids should not know everything or anything that happened. My daughter even made comments" oh .. daddy was drinking... again" or when he knocks down a race she really is fed up. So much more <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p>I did take father to court before for change in visition( hardly showed- always stood them up etc.. cut time short to party)/alcohol (while kids there and drinking in car)/ women/men (many different all hours of day and night plus several were violent/drug users) talking bad about me in front of kids.. and so on. He was this way since I knew him and before( over 20 years) <em>has been arrested for the above issues .. incl domestic violence against his exes. </em>....All sudden he stopped drinking etc and is a perfect dad at least to his new child. He says by paying all health insc hes a perfect dad too. On his side according to a family member of his and one of mine, his dad and brother are the same.<em> <strong>I pray my ex did change.. I hope and want him to have changed for our kids and all his others kids.</strong></em></p><p>Liahona- He never hit the kids just women and some fights with men. So I thank God for that.. he says theres no issues like that now.. of course he denies he hit the exes and he was only self defense if he did... But he does believe in using a belt and did get ready to hit my son with it once ( I stopped him before he could) for my sons defiance to his dad! My son doesn't totally remember that but my daughter does. I do have a lawyer from last time...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 612938"] MidwestMom- I just wish there was no problems :( bby31288- I know what MidwestMom is saying... its so hard on what to believe when my ex blames me.. my family history.. and I swear his :( dstc_99 Your not being mean, you have also been another helpful person here :) I understand what your saying and I do need more help..School District subbing is just not full time but I am still planning on getting help in the mornings for him( ill be here to). Weekends as well. My friend would help me but I leaned on her too much. I know what your saying about sending him with dad but I still am uneasy for more then the time period allowed. Plus- dad lives in another state. My daughter still would not be 100% happy with him.. the relief of her brother gone in a way yes, make her a little happy but she knows how her dad is and has seen and heard a lot over the years and I feel thats why my daughter is that way about him as well. Plus my ex already said.. once he gets one child of ours.. he will go for both no matter what and make me pay child support for a change. I am not scared of paying support, I just want my babies with me! My kids older half brothers esp the oldest ( fathers kids)wants nothing to do with their dad at this point either. The other mother and I encourage them to but they know their dad isnt a full time dad even when in the same state. We do not talk bad about him either. I always try to praise their dad how smart he is when he was in school,how good he is at his job, other compliments. Because my kids should not know everything or anything that happened. My daughter even made comments" oh .. daddy was drinking... again" or when he knocks down a race she really is fed up. So much more :( I did take father to court before for change in visition( hardly showed- always stood them up etc.. cut time short to party)/alcohol (while kids there and drinking in car)/ women/men (many different all hours of day and night plus several were violent/drug users) talking bad about me in front of kids.. and so on. He was this way since I knew him and before( over 20 years) [I]has been arrested for the above issues .. incl domestic violence against his exes. [/I]....All sudden he stopped drinking etc and is a perfect dad at least to his new child. He says by paying all health insc hes a perfect dad too. On his side according to a family member of his and one of mine, his dad and brother are the same.[I] [B]I pray my ex did change.. I hope and want him to have changed for our kids and all his others kids.[/B][/I] Liahona- He never hit the kids just women and some fights with men. So I thank God for that.. he says theres no issues like that now.. of course he denies he hit the exes and he was only self defense if he did... But he does believe in using a belt and did get ready to hit my son with it once ( I stopped him before he could) for my sons defiance to his dad! My son doesn't totally remember that but my daughter does. I do have a lawyer from last time... [/QUOTE]
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