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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 613613" data-attributes="member: 15796"><p>So I am sure some of you may remember that my difficult child told her ex (and me) that she was molested by my mother's husband. I have not talked to my mother in over a year because she went back to him after he pulled something else (while staying with them, my difficult child claimed that he was standing in the room when he thought she was sleeping and was touching himself. He was previously accused of doing the same thing in front of my neices at their house after a night of drinking with my sister and her husband.) difficult child was very much active in her addiction at this time and has historically come up with tragedies that happened to her to avoid confrontation or getting in trouble over something. So, while I believe her about the touching himself incident, I always questioned the molestation in the back of my mind. I would NEVER let on to her that I didn't believe her, but I honestly had my doubts. Though the touching himself is bad enough for me to be disgusted with my mother's choices. The fact that she could stay with someone after that makes me want to vomit.</p><p></p><p>Over the holiday, difficult child friended my mother on Facebook. When I asked her about it, she said she was still going to have a relationship with my mother and that I should, too, because she doesn't have anyone else. I pointed out that she lost everyone over HER choices. </p><p></p><p>To be honest, besides her staying with that POS, I have really missed talking to my mom. We were<em> very</em> close and talked on the phone all of the time. But I feel like it would be wrong of me to talk to her after she chose to stay married to that "man". </p><p></p><p>I don't know what to do...my sister only calls me when it has to do with <em>her</em>. She called after my birthday to talk about her life and didn't even mention my 40th birthday. My brother hasn't talked to any of us in years. I am not sure why. He got clean and cut off his family, I guess. My dad passed away long ago. My family stinks. My husband's side of the family is more like family to us. But there are times I miss my mom. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> </p><p></p><p>Just not sure what to do about this one...part of me feels it would be "okay" to talk to her since difficult child is...I just don't know if I can get past her relationship...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 613613, member: 15796"] So I am sure some of you may remember that my difficult child told her ex (and me) that she was molested by my mother's husband. I have not talked to my mother in over a year because she went back to him after he pulled something else (while staying with them, my difficult child claimed that he was standing in the room when he thought she was sleeping and was touching himself. He was previously accused of doing the same thing in front of my neices at their house after a night of drinking with my sister and her husband.) difficult child was very much active in her addiction at this time and has historically come up with tragedies that happened to her to avoid confrontation or getting in trouble over something. So, while I believe her about the touching himself incident, I always questioned the molestation in the back of my mind. I would NEVER let on to her that I didn't believe her, but I honestly had my doubts. Though the touching himself is bad enough for me to be disgusted with my mother's choices. The fact that she could stay with someone after that makes me want to vomit. Over the holiday, difficult child friended my mother on Facebook. When I asked her about it, she said she was still going to have a relationship with my mother and that I should, too, because she doesn't have anyone else. I pointed out that she lost everyone over HER choices. To be honest, besides her staying with that POS, I have really missed talking to my mom. We were[I] very[/I] close and talked on the phone all of the time. But I feel like it would be wrong of me to talk to her after she chose to stay married to that "man". I don't know what to do...my sister only calls me when it has to do with [I]her[/I]. She called after my birthday to talk about her life and didn't even mention my 40th birthday. My brother hasn't talked to any of us in years. I am not sure why. He got clean and cut off his family, I guess. My dad passed away long ago. My family stinks. My husband's side of the family is more like family to us. But there are times I miss my mom. :( Just not sure what to do about this one...part of me feels it would be "okay" to talk to her since difficult child is...I just don't know if I can get past her relationship... [/QUOTE]
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