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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 159613" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I tihnk I have to agree with witz. At this time, it is imperative to act in the best interest of your grandchild. He has no power to act on his own behalf, and cannot protect himself. </p><p> </p><p>I understand fully that you love your daughter. and you want her to have a good life, and to have a good relationship iwth her.</p><p> </p><p>I have to ask this.</p><p> </p><p>What would you feel if you withheld info from CPS, your grandson was placed with her, and then he neded up neglected or harmed simply because she does not have the skills/ability/drive/whatever to be a good parent?? </p><p> </p><p>I think at the LEAST you need to tell CPS about the testing, and when it was done (even roughly) so they can look it up. I would probably agonize over the decision, then answer questions honestly and fully.</p><p> </p><p>by the way, I had to do this with my gfgbro and gfgSIL. It ended up being a very painful year, but things are more typical now in our relationship. He is still a problem, but DID end up in therapy that helped him incredibly.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs,</p><p> </p><p>Susie</p><p> </p><p>ps. Just so you know, I will support you no matter what decision you make.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 159613, member: 1233"] I tihnk I have to agree with witz. At this time, it is imperative to act in the best interest of your grandchild. He has no power to act on his own behalf, and cannot protect himself. I understand fully that you love your daughter. and you want her to have a good life, and to have a good relationship iwth her. I have to ask this. What would you feel if you withheld info from CPS, your grandson was placed with her, and then he neded up neglected or harmed simply because she does not have the skills/ability/drive/whatever to be a good parent?? I think at the LEAST you need to tell CPS about the testing, and when it was done (even roughly) so they can look it up. I would probably agonize over the decision, then answer questions honestly and fully. by the way, I had to do this with my gfgbro and gfgSIL. It ended up being a very painful year, but things are more typical now in our relationship. He is still a problem, but DID end up in therapy that helped him incredibly. Hugs, Susie ps. Just so you know, I will support you no matter what decision you make. [/QUOTE]
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