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<blockquote data-quote="katya02" data-source="post: 238396" data-attributes="member: 2884"><p>It's hard to watch but your son will deal with this. The more he has to do on his own, the more discomfort he'll experience and the more incentive he'll have to change course. That doesn't mean he'll definitely change with this situation, but leaving it to him to handle will make it more likely that he'll reach his personal decision point. </p><p></p><p>In the meantime I hope you will try to conserve your energy for you, your husband, and your two other children who have endured so much all these years. All of you deserve time to focus on each other, enjoy and share things with each other without being hijacked and held hostage by your son's choices. You can only make choices for your own life. What do you enjoy? What skills or avocations do you have? What can you do in your community that would be rewarding? Reach out and reclaim your life and other things will fall into perspective. </p><p></p><p>Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="katya02, post: 238396, member: 2884"] It's hard to watch but your son will deal with this. The more he has to do on his own, the more discomfort he'll experience and the more incentive he'll have to change course. That doesn't mean he'll definitely change with this situation, but leaving it to him to handle will make it more likely that he'll reach his personal decision point. In the meantime I hope you will try to conserve your energy for you, your husband, and your two other children who have endured so much all these years. All of you deserve time to focus on each other, enjoy and share things with each other without being hijacked and held hostage by your son's choices. You can only make choices for your own life. What do you enjoy? What skills or avocations do you have? What can you do in your community that would be rewarding? Reach out and reclaim your life and other things will fall into perspective. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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