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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 477485" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p>I agree, manipulation. If it helps, write him a reply. But *don't* send it. Write down all the reasons he can't live with you any longer. Then sit on it for a day or two. Look at it again after that, and if you feel the need, edit it to just the basics and then send it. It may not make a difference at all (in fact, I guarantee it probably won't), but it might make you feel better to have put your own feelings out there. It'll also give you a chance to tell him you love him, but that you can't live with him. If that's what you want to say, that is. If you don't want to deal with it at all, then just the act of writing down your own feelings in a "mock" reply may help you immensely. </p><p></p><p>Hang in there. The weeks and months after I kicked Oldest out were when she was at her most volatile with me, and the accusations and guilt-trips were flying, but it did get better with time. Just take care of you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 477485, member: 1157"] I agree, manipulation. If it helps, write him a reply. But *don't* send it. Write down all the reasons he can't live with you any longer. Then sit on it for a day or two. Look at it again after that, and if you feel the need, edit it to just the basics and then send it. It may not make a difference at all (in fact, I guarantee it probably won't), but it might make you feel better to have put your own feelings out there. It'll also give you a chance to tell him you love him, but that you can't live with him. If that's what you want to say, that is. If you don't want to deal with it at all, then just the act of writing down your own feelings in a "mock" reply may help you immensely. Hang in there. The weeks and months after I kicked Oldest out were when she was at her most volatile with me, and the accusations and guilt-trips were flying, but it did get better with time. Just take care of you. [/QUOTE]
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