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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 384581" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Hi! I don't have much to add except to welcome you to the crowd. I'll dig around and see what I can find out - it sounds like there are a couple of good guesses here - the recant resulting in added stress that's making her do this at home. </p><p> </p><p>My oldest had ODD type symptoms and when he was training (at just short of 4 years old!) I must have asked him 100 times if he had to go always with a "no" reply. He looked me in the face, said wait a second, wet his pants and told me "Ha - I just peed in my pants!" I promptly took his new "Buzz and Woody" underwear off him, clearly announced that I wasn't washing them and threw them away. I then announced that when he ran out of underwear, he wouldn't be going ANYWHERE. No shopping, no park, no front porch, no walks - no where. </p><p> </p><p>Wow! He was trained!</p><p> </p><p>This, however, doesn't sound like a power struggle. It seems like a cry for help. Are there any therapists/counselors that are trained in dealing with children that are sexually abused? It may provide a breakthrough that you need.</p><p> </p><p>Keep posting...we're here for you both! It's quite a diverse group here - with a LOT of experience.</p><p> </p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 384581, member: 3814"] Hi! I don't have much to add except to welcome you to the crowd. I'll dig around and see what I can find out - it sounds like there are a couple of good guesses here - the recant resulting in added stress that's making her do this at home. My oldest had ODD type symptoms and when he was training (at just short of 4 years old!) I must have asked him 100 times if he had to go always with a "no" reply. He looked me in the face, said wait a second, wet his pants and told me "Ha - I just peed in my pants!" I promptly took his new "Buzz and Woody" underwear off him, clearly announced that I wasn't washing them and threw them away. I then announced that when he ran out of underwear, he wouldn't be going ANYWHERE. No shopping, no park, no front porch, no walks - no where. Wow! He was trained! This, however, doesn't sound like a power struggle. It seems like a cry for help. Are there any therapists/counselors that are trained in dealing with children that are sexually abused? It may provide a breakthrough that you need. Keep posting...we're here for you both! It's quite a diverse group here - with a LOT of experience. Beth [/QUOTE]
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