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Anyone else living the "get them to/thru school mess?"
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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 556192"><p>remclick, here's a strategy to get the school to hopefully help if YOU and difficult child can handle it. Let him do ALL his own work with NO help from you. Let him not do his work if he doesn't do it. When, not if, the school starts saying anything to you, simply tell them "I've been trying to tell you!". Let them see how HE functions by HIMSELF. I know it's hard but as long as he can do the verbal stuff at school and gets help from you at home, they aren't going to see the WHOLE picture and also won't see where the problem lies. It would be better to do this now than wait until he gets into high school and all his grades "count". His grades start falling that much, they'll notice. When they ask you what happened, you can tell them "I quit doing YOUR job".</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 556192"] remclick, here's a strategy to get the school to hopefully help if YOU and difficult child can handle it. Let him do ALL his own work with NO help from you. Let him not do his work if he doesn't do it. When, not if, the school starts saying anything to you, simply tell them "I've been trying to tell you!". Let them see how HE functions by HIMSELF. I know it's hard but as long as he can do the verbal stuff at school and gets help from you at home, they aren't going to see the WHOLE picture and also won't see where the problem lies. It would be better to do this now than wait until he gets into high school and all his grades "count". His grades start falling that much, they'll notice. When they ask you what happened, you can tell them "I quit doing YOUR job". [/QUOTE]
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