hi so yea thats what i was wondering anyone have a difficult child husband either diagnosed or undiagnosed yet your gut knows because they act similar to the difficult child kids? if so how do you cope with it? do you cope with it? did you leave it? LOL> just curious....... my first marriage was a gfgworld marriage. i left him, couldn't hack the Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) stuff and depression and ups and downs adn him not getting help for it. was too much chaos.