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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 264772" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I know this is sick and unhealthy, but I miss my sister (the good of my sister). She has called the police on me I-don't-know-how-many-times for ridiculous reasons such as I left a message on her answering machine and she didn't want me to or I e-mailed her when she asked me not to (our friend the police man of our small town really thought she was nutty when she did that). However, when we both lived in a bigger city, she also called the police and my kids were small and frightened when the cops came. She has also tried to ruin my relationship with my father. But we have a weird connection and she's the only one who understands my totally dysfunctional sick family (in which she is a main player...lol). Oh, even I can be <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" />. </p><p>The last thing she did was try to destroy my relationship with my 85 year old father. My mother had disowned me. I am the "selfish taker" in my family <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/peaceful.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":peaceful:" title="peaceful :peaceful:" data-shortname=":peaceful:" /> (of course my bipolar has nothing to do with my unstable behavior when I was young). I'm not going to make excuses to myself, but my mother disowned me. I value my loving relationship with my dad.</p><p>So why do I crave calling my sister? I keep giving in and taking her back into my life and it never works. Last time she actually got my Dad so angry at me that he wouldn't talk to me for days. He was supposed to have a surprise party, and he found out about it. I was unstable one day and messaged her that I may not go and a few other things. There was a lot on my plate then--I thought we faced possible homelessness and couldn't imagine giving up a weekend of looking for a house. Well, within an hour she had canceled the party and told me that my brother, who lives in NJ, had turned in his tickets so that there would be no party. And she told my Dad that it was because I wanted him to give me money and I was mad (yes, Dad found out about surprise party). The thing is, that had NOTHING to do with it. I hadn't even asked him for any money. Then my BROTHER wrote to me scolding me that Dad doesn't owe me any money, yada, yada, yada, and told me it is "off-the-wall" to "punish" Dad for that reason.</p><p>?????</p><p>Obviously, Sis gave him a bogus story. </p><p>SO WHY DO I STILL WISH I COULD CALL HER???????</p><p>What's wrong with me?????? <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/faint.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":faint:" title="faint :faint:" data-shortname=":faint:" /> In a way, I feel like I've lost my best friend, yet I know she can destroy me in many ways until my father passes...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 264772, member: 1550"] I know this is sick and unhealthy, but I miss my sister (the good of my sister). She has called the police on me I-don't-know-how-many-times for ridiculous reasons such as I left a message on her answering machine and she didn't want me to or I e-mailed her when she asked me not to (our friend the police man of our small town really thought she was nutty when she did that). However, when we both lived in a bigger city, she also called the police and my kids were small and frightened when the cops came. She has also tried to ruin my relationship with my father. But we have a weird connection and she's the only one who understands my totally dysfunctional sick family (in which she is a main player...lol). Oh, even I can be :winking:. The last thing she did was try to destroy my relationship with my 85 year old father. My mother had disowned me. I am the "selfish taker" in my family :peaceful: (of course my bipolar has nothing to do with my unstable behavior when I was young). I'm not going to make excuses to myself, but my mother disowned me. I value my loving relationship with my dad. So why do I crave calling my sister? I keep giving in and taking her back into my life and it never works. Last time she actually got my Dad so angry at me that he wouldn't talk to me for days. He was supposed to have a surprise party, and he found out about it. I was unstable one day and messaged her that I may not go and a few other things. There was a lot on my plate then--I thought we faced possible homelessness and couldn't imagine giving up a weekend of looking for a house. Well, within an hour she had canceled the party and told me that my brother, who lives in NJ, had turned in his tickets so that there would be no party. And she told my Dad that it was because I wanted him to give me money and I was mad (yes, Dad found out about surprise party). The thing is, that had NOTHING to do with it. I hadn't even asked him for any money. Then my BROTHER wrote to me scolding me that Dad doesn't owe me any money, yada, yada, yada, and told me it is "off-the-wall" to "punish" Dad for that reason. ????? Obviously, Sis gave him a bogus story. SO WHY DO I STILL WISH I COULD CALL HER??????? What's wrong with me?????? :knockedout: In a way, I feel like I've lost my best friend, yet I know she can destroy me in many ways until my father passes... [/QUOTE]
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