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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 367486" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Can't you get a copy of texts from the phone company? If I was in that situation I might go the spy route. Or take away the cell phone if she kept deleting the texts. </p><p></p><p>I would also make darned sure she was on birth control whether she liked it or not. </p><p></p><p>You really cannot keep someone from having sex. Even if you know it is totally the wrong thing for them to do. Kids have been maneuvering around parents and guardians so they could have sex for many many generations. You can do your best, but it may not deter her. </p><p></p><p>Even with proof that she is having sex there are very few ways to stop it. Unless you are prepared to send her away for a long period of time or to hire people to keep watch on her 24/7 you really cannot stop her. That is one of the ugly truths about parenting. </p><p></p><p>Given that you suspect she is sexually active, or know that she is, it is time to take her for her first gynecologist appointment. Have the doctor explain the various forms of birth control. With someone her age i would suggest the depo provera shot or some other long acting form of birth control. It is really easy to skip a pill or to take it incorrectly. It is doubtful a 14yo could take it at the same time every day, so it is not a wise choice. MANY teens think they truly WANT a baby at their young age and will do all they can to get pregnant. It is one reason the depo shot is something to look into.</p><p></p><p>Make sure she KNOWS that her childhood would be OVER if she got pregnant. Have the doctor read her the riot act if it will help. Just remember that most teens have little or no impulse control when their hormoves are so out of control. </p><p></p><p>Do you know the boy? If he is a minor I would talk to his parents. They need to know what is happening also. If he is an adult, or even just a few years older than your daughter is, I would consult with the police to see if he is breaking the law. If he is, press charges against him. </p><p></p><p>I am sorry that there is so little you can do in your situation. My suggestions are just what I came up with right now and may or may not work in your situation. </p><p></p><p>(((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 367486, member: 1233"] Can't you get a copy of texts from the phone company? If I was in that situation I might go the spy route. Or take away the cell phone if she kept deleting the texts. I would also make darned sure she was on birth control whether she liked it or not. You really cannot keep someone from having sex. Even if you know it is totally the wrong thing for them to do. Kids have been maneuvering around parents and guardians so they could have sex for many many generations. You can do your best, but it may not deter her. Even with proof that she is having sex there are very few ways to stop it. Unless you are prepared to send her away for a long period of time or to hire people to keep watch on her 24/7 you really cannot stop her. That is one of the ugly truths about parenting. Given that you suspect she is sexually active, or know that she is, it is time to take her for her first gynecologist appointment. Have the doctor explain the various forms of birth control. With someone her age i would suggest the depo provera shot or some other long acting form of birth control. It is really easy to skip a pill or to take it incorrectly. It is doubtful a 14yo could take it at the same time every day, so it is not a wise choice. MANY teens think they truly WANT a baby at their young age and will do all they can to get pregnant. It is one reason the depo shot is something to look into. Make sure she KNOWS that her childhood would be OVER if she got pregnant. Have the doctor read her the riot act if it will help. Just remember that most teens have little or no impulse control when their hormoves are so out of control. Do you know the boy? If he is a minor I would talk to his parents. They need to know what is happening also. If he is an adult, or even just a few years older than your daughter is, I would consult with the police to see if he is breaking the law. If he is, press charges against him. I am sorry that there is so little you can do in your situation. My suggestions are just what I came up with right now and may or may not work in your situation. (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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