I so need to find some other wife (wives) who have the experience of being married to someone with a mental illness. Most of the websites that I have found are specific for the person who is ill. There is a real lack of support for the family ... especially the spouse. I'm at my wits end some days. How does one detach from one when you are married? Hard to detach from the person with whom I 'am one'. Any web forums geared for spouses would be appreciated. I have looked for support groups in our area ... but again all are geared for either substance issues (Families Anonymous) or for the person with mental health issues (NAMI). Thanks in advance.