difficult child got a letter in the mail today that he is scheduled to have genetic testing done on 2/15 at 9:30 in the morning. I asked husband what he was going to do if the baby is his, and at first he said nothing. I reminded him of the negative comments he made about my brother and his wife never seeing their granddaughter and how could they do that???? I said, aren't you going to want to be part of her life if she is your granddaughter, and he said yeah, I'll go see her with you Not quite sure how I feel. Part of me will be so so relieved if she isn't his, but part of me will also be dissapointed I think??????? I'm just not ready to let wingnut back into my life. It's been so peaceful without her.