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<blockquote data-quote="Dixies_fire" data-source="post: 600386" data-attributes="member: 16184"><p>Suzie- my first marriage I was in physical</p><p>Altercations with my ex once or twice a year. I also am a in your face kind of person and don't shut up when told so occasionally I made it worse because I could of backed down and played the female card but the fact he touched me made ME angry and I wanted him to pay though how 150lb 5"6 woman makes a 6"2 190lb man "pay" I'm still not sure. I think my ex got mad when I took his manly ness away from him when he felt I had his balls in my purse it certainly seemed like that is the only times we fought that way. He picked a fight with me shortly after basic training and it was the last time he really tried to go there with me because it took too much effort.</p><p></p><p>I don't feel comfortable talking about hubs because anything I would speak about would be during his mental break down and truly since he has somewhat stabilized there has not been any violence.</p><p></p><p>I think you should probably just feel blessed and let it go. It isn't always the female being the victim and it isn't always really about being hurt. It's about power. </p><p>And you can never judge another person till you've been there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dixies_fire, post: 600386, member: 16184"] Suzie- my first marriage I was in physical Altercations with my ex once or twice a year. I also am a in your face kind of person and don't shut up when told so occasionally I made it worse because I could of backed down and played the female card but the fact he touched me made ME angry and I wanted him to pay though how 150lb 5"6 woman makes a 6"2 190lb man "pay" I'm still not sure. I think my ex got mad when I took his manly ness away from him when he felt I had his balls in my purse it certainly seemed like that is the only times we fought that way. He picked a fight with me shortly after basic training and it was the last time he really tried to go there with me because it took too much effort. I don't feel comfortable talking about hubs because anything I would speak about would be during his mental break down and truly since he has somewhat stabilized there has not been any violence. I think you should probably just feel blessed and let it go. It isn't always the female being the victim and it isn't always really about being hurt. It's about power. And you can never judge another person till you've been there. [/QUOTE]
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